{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/63d13d8f6887790011512f27/645fd08b7583f100118f89e8?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"The Lesbian Urge to Befriend an Ex: Can It Ever Work Out? ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/63d13d8f6887790011512f27/1681839554181-eae19497b70aae8a0aa9be70d1d5a1b2.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>The girls drive into the topic of why us Lezzas have such an urge to remain friends with past flings and Ex’s. Lucy and Juliet consider whether this is an accurate stereotype of Lesbians, discuss their own Ex friendship stories, as well as why it might be a good or poor choice to keep your ex in your life. Can it ever work? Let’s find out.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Links Mentioned:</p><p><br></p><p>Lesbian Discussion Group Insta - <a href=\"https://instagram.com/lesbiandiscussiongroup?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://instagram.com/lesbiandiscussiongroup?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==</a></p><p>Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates - <a href=\"https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.waterstones.com/book/men-who-hate-women/laura-bates/9781398504653</a></p><p>Channel 4 documentary ' The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD' - <a href=\"https://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-secret-world-of-incels-untold\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Channel 4https://www.channel4.com › the-se...The Secret World of Incels: UNTOLD</a></p><p>LGBTQ+ more likely to be friends with exes article - <a href=\"https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/202109/are-lgbtq-people-more-likely-stay-friends-their-exes\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inclusive-insight/202109/are-lgbtq-people-more-likely-stay-friends-their-exes</a></p><p>Research about dark personality traits and being friends with an ex - <a href=\"https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916302690\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886916302690</a></p><p>Article about the queer stereotype of staying friends with exes - <a href=\"https://saltyworld.net/not-all-lesbians-stay-friends-with-their-exes-and-thats-ok/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://saltyworld.net/not-all-lesbians-stay-friends-with-their-exes-and-thats-ok/</a></p><p>Butch Please Insta - <a href=\"https://instagram.com/butchpleaselondon?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://instagram.com/butchpleaselondon?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==</a></p><p>Article about the reasons for why some people stay friends with their Ex's:<a href=\" https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12197\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/pere.12197</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>If you'd like to send in your own Dykey-Dilemma then head on over to our anonymous google docs form: <a href=\"https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://forms.gle/NmL51nhFUJpbijsp9</a></p><p>Email: <a href=\"mailto:dykelemmas@gmail.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">dykelemmas@gmail.com</a></p><p>Insta: <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/dykelemmas/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@dykelemmas</a></p><p>TikTok: <a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@dykelemmas\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@dykelemmas</a></p>","author_name":"Juliet and Luce"}