"I can be an independent, strong feminist who doesn’t need a man and still want one and desire intimacy, connection and companionship. It shouldn’t be embarrassing or assumed that there’s something wrong with me because I’m still single. I wanted to use this campaign as a vehicle to have conversations about these murky waters that we’re trying to navigate in the modern dating world where connection has been commodified and loneliness has been capitalised." - Freya Graf
In this episode I’m joined by Freya Graf, a Holistic Sex Educator & Coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist with a passion for dismantling shame, stigma and taboo.
She keeps it real, raw and relatable when it comes to talking about sex, relating and bodies, and is on a mission to educate, empower and normalise these important topics by having open and vulnerable conversations about them through her work with women, her online courses and on her hilarious podcast The Labia Lounge.
In this ep, we discuss her Find Freya A Fell campaign - which is her very creative way of crowdsourcing a boyfriend. It involves boycotting dating apps and disrupting nonchalance culture. I found out about her campaign through a post she made in a bush doof facebook group and I was f***ing obsessed.
We also discuss:
In part 2, I play a voice message that one of my followers sent in and Freya gives us her thoughts, plus Freya shares a personal sex story of her own that will leave you cackling or maybe even inspire you a little ;)
Connect with Freya:
Website page for Find Freya a Fella - including info on the mixer she's running in Melbourne on 30th Oct 2026
My Inner Child Healing for Self-Acceptance video class
My program for vulva/labia confidence and love - The Outie Sanctuary
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