{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6370b1885ce7b900126fc582/6a081e6268dc584eda799e02?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"369. Living Between Two Worlds - Contemplation, Stages of Change Mini Series","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6370b1885ce7b900126fc582/1778920504351-bfa79076-c70c-4c3a-abec-2c8e098b7ec4.jpeg?height=200","description":"<h3>The Stages of Change Mini Series</h3><h3>Understanding the Contemplation Stage of Change</h3><p>In today’s episode we continue our series exploring the Stages of Change model developed by James Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente.</p><p>This episode explores the contemplation stage, the stage where awareness has begun, but change has not yet fully happened.</p><p>The part of us that wants change… and the part that is still afraid of it.</p><p>In this episode we explore:</p><ul><li>Why awareness and action are not the same thing</li><li>The emotional exhaustion of living between two worlds</li><li>Why people stay stuck in patterns they know are hurting them</li><li>The hidden benefits behaviours can still provide</li><li>Fear, identity, belonging, and nervous system safety</li><li>Why familiar pain can feel safer than uncertainty</li><li>The grief that can come with change</li><li>Supporting someone who is in contemplation without pushing or shaming them</li></ul><p><br></p><p>We also talk about how contemplation is often a deeply vulnerable stage because once awareness begins, it becomes difficult to fully “unsee” the impact of our behaviours.</p><p>This episode is an invitation to meet inner conflict with honesty instead of judgement, and to understand that questioning a behaviour is already movement.</p><p><br></p><p>Journal prompts or reflection:</p><p>What behaviour or pattern am I currently questioning in my life?</p><p>What do I fear I might lose if I change?</p><p>What is this behaviour helping me avoid, numb, regulate, or cope with?</p><p>How can I best support my nervous system through this?</p><p><br></p><p>For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go to</p><p><a href=\"http://www.iquitalcohol.com.au/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.iquitalcohol.com.au</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow HIQA insta @howiquitalcohol&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr Cassidy</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>If you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist.&nbsp;Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Danni Carr"}