{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/62f3a2604c87a60012c0dcc6/6ad81b6670af2b1aa7abefa9?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"77. 4 barriers to good communication","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/62f3a2604c87a60012c0dcc6/1792547156386-0cf07f05-8fee-4508-8be8-89e61d562a34.jpeg?height=200","description":"<h2>4 Barriers to good communication</h2><p><br></p><p>We all want to be good at communication and we know how we want to communicate but sometimes things just get in the way.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I share the 4 barriers that I see again and again that get in the way of good communication:</p><ol><li>A lack of skilss</li><li>Triggered parts</li><li>Lack of unity</li><li>Awareness</li></ol><p><br></p><p>That last one is a really important one. You can&#39;t change anything if you are not aware that it is a problem or that you are doing something that is aggravating things. I recommend my online course, The 5 Big Communication Mistakes that couples make and how to avoid them. You can check it out here. nicolemathieson.com/courses/big-communication-mistakes/</p><p><br></p><h2>Nicole Mathieson</h2><p><br></p><p>This podcast was created by Nicole Mathieson, a Brisbane based counsellor and couple therapist, who has a <a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/podcasts-about-relationships/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">couple of podcasts</a> and is the author of <em><a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/the-beauty-load-book/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Beauty Load, </a>How to feel enough in a world obsessed with beauty.</em></p><p>Nicole helps men, women and couples get <strong><a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/couple-counselling-brisbane/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">smarter, happier and more connected</a></strong><a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/couple-counselling-brisbane/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> in their intimate relationships</a> and has various <a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/courses/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">online courses </a>and resources to support people navigating the tricky realm of relationships.</p><p>@relationship_smart_with_nicole</p>","author_name":"Nicole Mathieson | Couple therapist and Relationship counsellor "}