{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/62f3a2604c87a60012c0dcc6/691e1e8c5e54c6660a3366bd?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"68. Same event, different story, Bridging the gap of your different view points","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/62f3a2604c87a60012c0dcc6/1763580794291-02580d0f-1f5f-49eb-b17d-be78e387c573.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Two people can go through the&nbsp;<strong>same event</strong>&nbsp;and walk away with&nbsp;<strong>different stories</strong>&nbsp;about what happened.</p><p><br></p><p>That’s right —&nbsp;<em>same event, different story.</em>&nbsp;And those different interpretations can quietly shape how we feel about each other, how safe we feel in our relationships, and even how much love we’re able to express.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode I talk about where we go wrong and what we can do to bridge the gap of disconnect, switch focus, stop arguing about our different versions and come back into connection.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode we look at:</p><ul><li>There’s Truth on Both Sides</li><li>Nowhere Is This More Polarising Than in the Bedroom</li><li>Memory: Is not to be trusted</li><li>The 3 Stances That Keep Us Stuck</li><li>How to Improve Your Relationship — Bridging the Gap</li><li>Seeing Things Differently Can Be a Strength</li></ul><p><br></p><h2>Nicole Mathieson</h2><p><br></p><p>This podcast was created by Nicole Mathieson, a Brisbane based counsellor and couple therapist, who has a <a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/podcasts-about-relationships/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">couple of podcasts</a> and is the author of&nbsp;<a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/the-beauty-load-book/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>The Beauty Load, </em></a><em>How to feel enough in a world obsessed with beauty.</em></p><p>Nicole helps men, women and couples get&nbsp;<a href=\"https://nicolemathieson.com/couple-counselling-brisbane/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>smarter, happier and more connected</strong>&nbsp;in their intimate relationships.</a></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Nicole Mathieson | Couple therapist and Relationship counsellor "}