This week, Spencer and Lisa center the conversation on simple, repeatable habits that deepen connection, strengthen trust, and build teamwork in marriage: talk, listen, and love with intention.
Here are the 9 best practices they share:
\t•\tGive full attention: remove distractions, make eye contact, and be present when a spouse is speaking.
\t•\tPraise each other often: notice strengths and speak sincere encouragement regularly.
\t•\tUse assertiveness and “I” statements: share needs and feelings clearly without blame (e.g., “I feel…”).
\t•\tAvoid criticism: it erodes trust; raise concerns without put-downs.
\t•\tBalance critique with positivity: pair any necessary feedback with a positive to keep it constructive.
\t•\tListen to understand, not to judge: pursue empathy before defense or correction.
\t•\tPractice active listening: summarize what was heard before responding to build clarity and trust.
\t•\tAvoid blame; collaborate on solutions: face problems as a team and co-create next steps.
\t•\tUse structured conflict resolution: when stuck, get help—marriage coaching provides tools and guardrails.
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