{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/62df2dc142893c00129e7257/6328d72ca3d946001220be7b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"\"We All Have Strength Enough to Endure the Misfortunes of Others.\"","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/62df2dc142893c00129e7257/1658799026323-72a4b72f386170a9135042d54dceddca.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>I would have written a shorter episode if I only had the time. The Maxims of <a href=\"https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fran%C3%A7ois_de_La_Rochefoucauld_(writer)\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Francois de la Rochefoucauld</a> (hear my struggle to pronounce it) provide this weeks heuristic, which I could reword as 'if they don't care, why should you?' damn. Why didn't I think of that sooner. I would have put it in the script. Anyway, I apply it in the context of the spotlight effect - we tend to think people are paying more attention to us than they are. In accurately perceiving how little others care, we can relax ourselves.</p>","author_name":"tohm curtis"}