{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/62db8e1bf4c8b2001486b951/6ac61e5ef38f25c0f0fe1a8d?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"ADHD House Hacks Part 2: Chores and Mental Load","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/62db8e1bf4c8b2001486b951/1791368391785-f4328b02-f09a-4896-9bf3-33e124249fb5.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Do you feel like managing a household with ADHD means being the one who remembers everything?</strong></p><p>Callie is back for House Hacks Part 2, with practical home organisation ideas for a neurodivergent house, from visible chore charts to a last-minute gift box. There’s also an honest look at the mental load when you’re the person keeping the systems running.</p><p>It’s ADHD Awareness Month, the ADHD is ADHDing, and we <strong>might</strong> get better.</p><p><br></p><p>Welcome to AuDHD for Grownups: F Them Fish, with your neurodivergent besties, Callie Elward-Barrett and Jayne Gurton. This week, Callie is flying solo, sharing her experience as an AuDHDer, neuroinclusion specialist, and parent in a blended family.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In this episode</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Tiny tasks, endless side quests:</strong> When the three-minute Nike rule becomes half an hour of little jobs, and giving yourself permission to stop.</li><li><strong>Getting everyone involved:</strong> Shared shopping lists, reminders, and what happens when people stop using the system.</li><li><strong>The last-minute gift box:</strong> Preparing for the birthday party you remember approximately 30 minutes before it starts.</li><li><strong>Chore charts with clarity:</strong> Making expectations visible and explaining what finished actually means. Apparently, vacuum downstairs needs more detail.</li><li><strong>Needs versus wants:</strong> Making family spending priorities visible, with the adults subject to the same system. Yes, sometimes you will hate your own rules.</li><li><strong>The hidden mental load:</strong> Why a tidy outcome doesn’t necessarily mean the system is working for the person holding it all together.</li><li><strong>Neuroinclusion at home:</strong> Bringing Callie’s 5Cs Model for Neuroinclusion© into family life: Clarity, Capacity, Culture, and Conditions, led by Compassion.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>These are things we’re trying in an actual house, with actual humans who don’t always want to do chores. Some help a lot. Some need changing. The shoes are still in front of the shoe rack.</p><p><br></p><p>Start with something that regularly causes friction. Pick one small change, design it with the people who’ll use it, and see how it goes. You’re allowed to adjust it.</p><p>Pop us on as a body double while you tackle a manageable job, or just keep us company.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Catch up on Part 1</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://shows.acast.com/f-them-fish-adhd-for-grownups/episodes/neurodivergent-home-systems-adhd-organisation-reducing-cogni\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Episode 65: House Hacks: ADHD Organisation &amp; Reducing Cognitive Load</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Mentioned in this episode</strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://lnkd.in/gRW6ra65\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">My Spirited Mind NSW ADHD Conference</a>: 18 October 2026, Castle Hill RSL.</li><li><a href=\"https://events.humanitix.com/neuroinclusive-facilitation-for-trainers-and-facilitators\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Free Neuroinclusive Facilitation webinar</a>: 21 October 2026, 12–1 pm AEDT, with Callie and Cecilia Jones.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Come tell us what works in your house</strong></p><p>Send us your house hacks, questions, and the systems that spectacularly failed. We want to hear those too. What helped, what didn’t, and who’s doing the remembering?</p><p>Email: <a href=\"mailto:fthemfish@gmail.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">fthemfish@gmail.com</a></p><p>Find us on YouTube and Instagram at AuDHD for Grownups: F Them Fish</p><p>Website: <a href=\"https://executivefunctioning.com.au/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://executivefunctioning.com.au/</a></p><p>LinkedIn: <a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/callie-elward-barrett-263068142/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Callie Elward-Barrett</a> | <a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayne-gurton-/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Jayne Gurton</a></p><p><br></p><p>Follow the show so you don’t miss an episode. If this one sounds like your household, send it to someone who lives there. Ratings and reviews are always appreciated too...5 stars are the only stars! </p><p><br></p><p>Occasional swearing. We share lived and professional experience. Different households need different things, so use what helps and adapt it to your people.</p><p><br></p><p>We acknowledge the Ngunnawal, Wadawurrung, and Dja Dja Wurrung peoples, the Traditional Custodians of the lands on which we live, work, and record. We pay our respects to Elders past and present, and extend that respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander listeners.</p>","author_name":"F them fish"}