If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “I’m so behind!” or “I should be further along by now!”, this episode of The Confidence Show is for you.
I’m calling out the outdated beliefs that have been making 30-somethings feel like they’re behind, and handing you the mindset reset you actually need to feel confident again.
Whether you're single, childfree, living with your parents, or just feeling like life didn’t pan out the way you expected by now, this episode will help you stop spiralling in shame, shift your perspective, and remember the truth: You’re not behind. You’ve just been buying into the wrong beliefs.
In this episode, I’m spilling the beans on:
💋 The toxic AF narratives society sells us about where we should be by 30
💋 How I reframed living with my mum at 34 (and why I’m not ashamed of it)
💋 The root of these “you’re behind” beliefs, and how to unlearn them for good
💋 Why being single in your 30s is not a curse (it’s an opportunity for deep growth)
💋 How these beliefs affect your energy, confidence and ambition without you even realising
💋 The power of reclaiming your timeline and raising your standards on your own terms
💋 Pep talk reminders you’ll want to replay when you’re feeling off-track or not enough
This is your reminder that you don’t have to tick every box by 30 to be worthy, successful or fulfilled. You just have to believe you get to define what your life looks like, and start living like you’re the standard.
Mentioned:
Watch my How I Dropped the Shame of Living with My Mum in My 30s video on YouTube
Join The Standard Is You, my 12-week coaching experience for 30-somethings who are done settling and ready to raise their standards.
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And always remember, you're not behind. You're just getting started.
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