{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/62aa4ef96731600013a11040/6a01b68092e9663a6f6fcc15?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Ep 170: Longing, Adult Love Relationships and Feeling Seen and Heard","description":"<p>In this episode Cath answers two listener questions. The first question is a short question related to attachment and trauma in our younger years. Have a listen to episode 14 which gives a broad overview of trauma and helps provide context for the first question. Cath will be doing a more detailed view on this material (from episode 14) in an upcoming episode.</p><p><br></p><p>The second question relates to feeling seen and heard in our adult love relationships and how this is impacted by various factors, how our inner children play a role and some suggestions for how this need can be met. Cath shares a deeply personal anecdote to illustrate how and why different partners have different levels of comfort with discussions around emotions and how emotional neglect plays a huge role in this.</p><p><br></p><p>The book she references is 'Mating in Captivity' by Esther Perel.</p><p><br></p><p>If you're enjoying this podcast. Please leave a review and rate the podcast, this really helps others to find it.</p><p><br></p><p>To sign up for the journal prompts and Nurture.Heal.Grow (on Substack) please head to&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.cathcounihan.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.cathcounihan.com</a>&nbsp;or&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/cathcounihan/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cathcounihan</a> on Instagram.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Follow Cath on social media here:</p><p>Instagram:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/cathcounihan/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@cathcounihan</a></p><p>Substack: <a href=\"https://cathcounihan.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;utm_campaign=reader2&amp;utm_source=%2Fsearch%2FNurture.Heal.Grow&amp;utm_medium=reader2\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Nurture.Heal.Grow</a></p><p>Facebook: <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/psychotherapymum/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Cath Counihan</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Catherine Counihan"}