The personal development world has decided that \"what could go wrong\" is a pessimist's question. That the more evolved, more positive approach is to ask \"what could go right.\"
I'd like to respectfully disagree with that entire premise.
Risk is unavoidable. But the desire to avoid thinking about risk? That's where things get costly — not just financially, but energetically. Circling an unexamined risk drains momentum without producing any forward motion. And the unlived risk — the leap you never took — has an energy price too. It just never resolves.
In this episode I'm making the case for looking directly at what could go wrong — not as an act of pessimism, but as the foundation for grounded confidence. I share a story from my time running a nonprofit center in Tacoma, where I put a month of my own salary on the line to prove a point — and what that experience actually taught me about the relationship between risk assessment and self-trust.
The goal isn't certainty that it will work. The goal is trusting yourself enough to handle it if it doesn't.
It's a lot easier to leap when you've mapped the landing.
In this episode:
Energy prompts from this episode:
What risk are you currently circling instead of naming? What's it costing you to keep not deciding?
Name one risk you've been avoiding looking at directly. What's the most likely outcome if it happens — and what would you do?
What is a risk you're glad you took — regardless of how it turned out?
Want to know what's actually draining your momentum? The Energy Equation Snapshot is a free assessment that tells you which energy type is lowest right now — and what to do about it. → bicurean.com/energysnapshot
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