{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/629d98cad435d300126b7044/684678b41dd9d3b33f659d6a?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Ex-Spy REVEALS: How to Read Anyone Instantly (The Art of Asking) | Dr Dianne Olvera | #TGV647","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/629d98cad435d300126b7044/1755843280245-266a34a6-9649-4703-81ff-30b8380563f9.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Unlock the secrets of high-stakes communication with Dr. Diane Alva, a former international diplomat, spy, and brain researcher. In this episode of&nbsp;<strong>The Guiding Voice</strong>, we dive deep into the \"Ask, Don't Tell\" framework and discover how shifting your communication style can transform your relationships, leadership, and self-awareness.</p><p><strong>In this episode, you will learn:</strong></p><ul><li>The science behind why \"asking\" empowers the brain while \"telling\" takes away power.</li><li>Dr. Alva’s \"Eye Magic\" technique for delivering kindness and empathy.</li><li>How to avoid catastrophic cultural communication pitfalls based on real-world spy experiences.</li><li>The difference between \"Generalists\" and \"Specialists\" and how to manage them effectively.</li><li>Why self-awareness is the ultimate success mantra for leadership and personal growth.</li></ul><h3><strong>Chapters &amp; Timestamps</strong></h3><ul><li><strong>00:00</strong>&nbsp;- Introduction to Dr. Diane Olvera</li><li><strong>01:49</strong>&nbsp;- Dr. Diane’s Diverse Journey: From Spy to Researcher</li><li><strong>02:26</strong>&nbsp;- Why Self-Awareness is Lacking Today</li><li><strong>03:45</strong>&nbsp;- Rapid Fire Round: Curiosity, Leadership, and Aliens</li><li><strong>06:45</strong>&nbsp;- The Success Mantra: Cultural Intelligence and Brain Research</li><li><strong>09:20</strong>&nbsp;- Ask vs. Tell: Why Asking Empowers the Brain</li><li><strong>11:20</strong>&nbsp;- Eye Magic: The Power of Nonverbal Communication</li><li><strong>12:20</strong>&nbsp;- Avoiding Cultural Communication Pitfalls</li><li><strong>15:00</strong>&nbsp;- The Power of Connection: Generalists vs. Specialists</li><li><strong>18:20</strong>&nbsp;- How Language Impacts the Brain</li><li><strong>20:45</strong>&nbsp;- The Spanish Slip-Up: A Hilarious Spy Story</li><li><strong>23:50</strong>&nbsp;- Underrated Habits that Transform Your Life</li><li><strong>25:50</strong>&nbsp;- Trivia: Tone vs. Words and Multilingual Benefits</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Guest LI profile link:</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianne-olvera-ph-d-bcet-0a38103a/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianne-olvera-ph-d-bcet-0a38103a/</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH THE HOST ON LINKEDIN:</strong></p><p>Naveen Samala: <a href=\"http://surl.li/tmksm\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://surl.li/tmksm</a></p><p><br></p><p>If you'd like to contribute to our mission, please donate through PayPal</p><p><a href=\"https://paypal.me/NaveenSamla\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://paypal.me/NaveenSamla</a></p><p><br></p><p>If you wish to become a productivity monk, enroll in this course:&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"http://surl.li/tmksi\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://surl.li/tmksi</a></p><p><br></p><p>TGV Inspiring Lives Volume 1 &amp; 2 are on Amazon:</p><p><br></p><p>Vol 2:&nbsp;</p><p>Notion Press:&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"http://surl.li/tmkry\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://surl.li/tmkry</a></p><p>Amazon UK: <a href=\"https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CQ2J7BM8\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0CQ2J7BM8</a></p><p><br></p><p>Vol 1: Kindle:</p><p><a href=\"https://amzn.eu/d/cKTKtyC\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://amzn.eu/d/cKTKtyC</a></p><p><br></p><p>Paperback:</p><p><a href=\"https://amzn.eu/d/4Y1HAXj\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://amzn.eu/d/4Y1HAXj</a></p><p><br></p><p>#TGV is available in Hindi &amp; Telugu:</p><p><a href=\"https://youtube.com/@tgvhindi\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://youtube.com/@tgvhindi</a></p><p><a href=\"https://youtube.com/@tgvtelugu\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://youtube.com/@tgvtelugu</a></p><p><br></p><p>Audio:</p><p><a href=\"http://surl.li/tmksp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://surl.li/tmksp</a>(#tgvhindi)</p><p><a href=\"http://surl.li/tmksx\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://surl.li/tmksx</a> (#tgvtelugu)</p><p><br></p><p>FOLLOW ON X:</p><p>@guidingvoice</p><p>@naveensamala</p>","author_name":"Naveen Samala & Friends"}