{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/62543c995777950013f2db2b/6ab3138f93749e4c0b79f1dc?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Ep. 166 When Everything Falls Apart: Building A Live You Never Planned with Missy Moritz","description":"<p>\t<strong>When Everything Falls Apart: Building a Life You Never Planned</strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>What happens when the life you worked so hard to build suddenly falls apart?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>My guest on this episode of The Beauty In The Mess is Melissa Moritz, better known as Messie Missy. Melissa spent more than 20 years in executive leadership and ultimately became CEO of a $75 million healthcare company. Then, within a relatively short period of time, she lost her career, businesses, financial security, home, marriage, and much of the identity she had built around that life. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>In this incredibly honest conversation, Missy shares what it really looked like to hit a point where simply getting out of bed, eating, showering, and putting on clean clothes could feel like accomplishments.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>We talk about divorce, depression, motherhood, financial devastation, faith, identity loss, asking for help, entrepreneurship, and what happens when a highly successful woman suddenly has to redefine what success even means.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>But this isn&#39;t a perfectly packaged comeback story.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>Missy is still rebuilding.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>Today, she&#39;s using what she&#39;s learned to help other midlife women rebuild their confidence, income, and independence. Through her Mess to Momentum framework, she helps women recognize the value in their own experience and expertise and use it to begin building something of their own. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>\t<strong>This conversation is about losing the life you thought you&#39;d have, surviving the part nobody sees, and eventually allowing yourself to believe that maybe you can build something beautiful again.</strong></p><p><br></p><h3><strong>2:30</strong> – Meet Missy and how dramatically her life changed</h3><h3> <strong>5:30</strong> – Going from successful CEO and entrepreneur to suddenly starting over</h3><h3> <strong>8:30</strong> – Divorce, financial devastation, and losing the life she thought she&#39;d built</h3><h3> <strong>11:30</strong> – What happens to your identity when the titles and success disappear</h3><h3> <strong>14:30</strong> – Depression and the reality of simply trying to function day to day</h3><h3> <strong>17:30</strong> – Learning to ask for and accept help when you&#39;re used to being the strong one</h3><h3> <strong>20:30</strong> – Raising teenagers while trying to hold herself together</h3><h3> <strong>23:30</strong> – Faith and what kept Missy moving forward during her darkest period</h3><h3> <strong>26:30</strong> – The shame and vulnerability of struggling after being highly successful</h3><h3> <strong>29:30</strong> – Losing relationships and discovering who remained when everything changed</h3><h3> <strong>32:30</strong> – Why Missy decided to share her rebuilding journey publicly</h3><h3> <strong>35:30</strong> – Separating your identity from your career, marriage, and accomplishments</h3><h3> <strong>38:30</strong> – Rebuilding confidence when you no longer recognize yourself</h3><h3> <strong>41:30</strong> – Money, independence, and what Missy wishes more women understood before divorce</h3><h3> <strong>44:30</strong> – Redefining success in this season of her life</h3><h3> <strong>47:30</strong> – Turning decades of experience into something valuable after losing the job title</h3><h3> <strong>50:30</strong> – Building the Messie Missy brand and her Mess to Momentum framework</h3><h3> <strong>53:30</strong> – Helping midlife women rebuild income, identity, and independence</h3><h3> <strong>56:30</strong> – Why rebuilding doesn&#39;t mean recreating the life you had before</h3><h3> <strong>59:30</strong> – Allowing yourself to dream and set goals again</h3><h3> <strong>1:02:30</strong> – What Missy wants women in the middle of their own mess to know</h3><h3> <strong>1:05:30</strong> – Moving forward without allowing the hardest chapter to become your entire story</h3><p><br></p><p>One of my favorite things Missy said:</p><p><strong>“This is always gonna be part of my story, but I don&#39;t wanna keep retelling that story anymore. I really want to tell a beautiful story. I wanna tell something new.”</strong></p><p><br></p><h3>✨ Connect with Missy Moritz</h3><ul><li><strong>Website:</strong> <a href=\"https://www.messiemissy.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.messiemissy.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com</a></li><li><strong>The Messie Missy Podcast</strong> – Find it through her website and your favorite podcast platform.</li><li><strong>Email:</strong> melissa@messiemissy.com</li></ul><p><br></p><h3>✨ Connect with Michele Simms</h3><p>• Website: thebeautyinthemess.com</p><p> • Instagram: @the.beauty.in.the.mess</p><p> • LinkedIn: Michele Simms</p><p> • Facebook Group: The Beauty in the Mess Podcast</p><p><br></p><h3>💬 Rate &amp; Review</h3><p>If Missy&#39;s story encouraged you, please consider leaving a <strong>5-star review</strong> and sharing this episode with someone who needs the reminder that heartbreak doesn&#39;t have to be the end of their story.</p>","author_name":"Michele Simms"}