What if joy isn't something you find after life gets easier?
What if joy is something you choose in the middle of the mess?
In this powerful and deeply moving episode, I sit down with TEDx speaker, educator, storyteller, and self-proclaimed \"joy bringer\" Shannon Donohoe-Simpson. Shannon shares her remarkable journey through childhood trauma, breast cancer, parenting children with unique challenges, divorce, emotional healing, and the life-changing lessons she discovered along the way.
At just 34 years old, Shannon was diagnosed with aggressive triple-negative breast cancer while raising young children and navigating overwhelming life circumstances. What followed wasn't just a healing journey, it was a transformation that challenged everything she believed about success, self-worth, emotions, and what it truly means to live fully.
Together we discuss:
· Choosing joy when life falls apart
· The connection between emotional and physical health
· Childhood trauma and emotional suppression
· Cancer as a catalyst for transformation
· People-pleasing and self-abandonment
· Authenticity and living your truth
· Parenting through autism and life's challenges
· Divorce, healing, and rebuilding
· Why self-care is not selfish
· The gift of failure and learning to trust yourself
· Moving emotions through practices like journaling, community, and dance
This conversation is a beautiful reminder that healing isn't about becoming someone new, it's about reconnecting with whom you've always been beneath the pain, expectations, and stories you've carried.
00:02:40 – Introduction to Shannon and her journey
00:03:40 – The cancer retreat that changed everything
00:05:40 – Speaking publicly about childhood sexual abuse for the first time
00:07:40 – The connection between trauma and physical illness
00:09:40 – Emotional healing, counseling, and finding healthy outlets
00:11:40 – Why dancing became part of Shannon's healing practice
00:13:40 – Emotional suppression and what society teach us about feelings
00:15:40 – Why emotional regulation should be taught in schools
00:18:40 – Breaking free from programming and living authentically
00:21:40 – People-pleasing, resentment, and the cost of ignoring yourself
00:24:40 – The surprising lesson hidden behind chronic foot pain
00:27:40 – Gabor Maté and When the Body Says No
00:29:40 – Why awareness is the first step toward change
00:31:40 – Women's circles, community, and discovering you're not alone
00:34:40 – Filling your own cup without guilt
00:36:40 – Divorce, reflection, and learning from the past
00:39:40 – Cancer, caregiving, and being forced to pause
00:43:40 – The physical effects of stress and emotional overload
00:45:40 – Why joy matters during difficult seasons
00:48:40 – Self-care versus selfishness
00:51:40 – Building daily practices that support healing
00:54:40 – The role of nutrition, movement, and holistic health
00:57:40 – How cancer changed Shannon's perspective on life
01:00:40 – Grief, funerals, and allowing yourself to feel
01:03:40 – Can joy and grief exist together?
01:05:40 – Shannon's TEDx talk and The Gift of Failure
01:08:40 – Being brave enough to try before you're ready
✨Connect with Shannon Donohoe-Simpson:
· Website: https://shannondonohoesimpson.com/
· Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shannon.donohoesimpson
· LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannon-donohoe-simpson/
· Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shannondonohoesimpson/
· YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shannondonohoesimpson/videos
· TEDx Talk: The Gift of Failure
✨ Connect with Michele Simms:
· Website: thebeautyinthemess.com
· Instagram: @the.beauty.in.the.mess
· LinkedIn: Michele Simms
· Facebook Group: The Beauty in the Mess Podcast
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