{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/624a4a024a85240012f497d4/69bc7af11861d127d57ca9e7?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"209 {Brendan Cullen Pt 1} A Farmer’s Story of Sexual Abuse, Silence and Depression","description":"<p>Try our <a href=\"https://challengesthatchangeus.com/burnout-quiz\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">FREE burnout quiz.</a></p><p>Grab your burnout workbook <a href=\"https://challengesthatchangeus.com/burnout-workbook\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">HERE.&nbsp;</a></p><p><br></p><p>We know remote and regional Australia has often been a space where mental health and abuse can fester untreated, and Brendan Cullen’s story is a prime example of this.</p><p>Brendan has always lived and worked on stations outside of Broken Hill, but his life has been much more than just managing stations.</p><p>With his diagnosis of depression from the steps he took up to the Broken Hill hospital, he has found himself not only living a happier life but having opportunities he could never have imagined. From these opportunities Brendan has become an Ambassador for Lifeline Regional SA &amp; Far West NSW and a Champion for the Royal Flying Doctor Service South Eastern section We’ve Got Your Back initiative.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode he shares:</p><p><br></p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;His childhood growing up in the bush and the freedom that came with that life</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;What it was like being sent away to boarding school from a young age</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The childhood sexual abuse he experienced and the impact it had on him for decades</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;How trauma shaped his ability to read people and the world around him</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The effect of carrying secrecy, fear and shame for so many years</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;How alcohol, overwork and constant pushing through became part of how he coped</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The warning signs of depression that were building long before he asked for help</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;What happened when he finally walked into hospital and was diagnosed with depression</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The tools and mindset shifts that helped him begin healing and quiet the noise in his mind</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Why sharing his story through his book has opened the door for others to speak about their own trauma</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Key Quotes</u></strong></p><p><br></p><p>“I was flogging myself by running. I was flogging myself working. And then I was self-medicating at night, so I was just burning myself out totally.”</p><p><br></p><p>“The closer I got, the worse I felt and I just thought it was my schooling, but I know that it was the abuse that I'd felt anxious, the uneasiness about all of that, and that feeling lasted for about 30 years.”</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>More about Brendan</u></strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>You can get involved with the podcast online</strong></p><p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p><p>On facebook in our community:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus</a></p><p>Or on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeus</p><p>If you want to contact the podcast, email us here:&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:support@challengesthatchangeus.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">support@challengesthatchangeus.com</a></p><p>Or check out our website:&nbsp;<a href=\"http://www.challengesthatchangeus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.Challengesthatchangeus.com</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:</p><p><a href=\"http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au</a></p>","author_name":"Ali Flynn"}