{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/624a4a024a85240012f497d4/6712dd98e3d9082a5ad50d57?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"136 {Stephanie Burns Part 2} A Confident Public Speaker with a Hidden Struggle in Social Situations","description":"<p>Trigger warning: Anxiety</p><p><br></p><p>Welcome to part two of our chat with Stephanie Burns.</p><p>In part one Stephanie shared her remarkable life and some of the huge challenges she has faced, including having to navigate violence in the home and abandonment in her teenage years.</p><p>In part two she shares with us the impact those experiences have had on her and how they influenced her social anxiety.</p><p>This episode is not just about her social anxiety but also about the many tools she has used to overcome it, while also learning to live with it.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode she shares:</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The influence of her early experiences on her social skills</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;How she developed a fear and discomfort with social situations</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;How bad her social anxiety got</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The connection between her abandonment and her difficulties with trusting</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;How it helped her to create a safe space for social interactions</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The importance of knowing oneself and setting boundaries</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Why it can be nice to thrive in your area of interest</p><p>-&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The advantage of taking small steps when navigating new experiences</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>Key Quotes</u></strong></p><p><br></p><p>“In the old days I couldn’t go in a grocery store because I didn't know how to navigate people in a grocery store.”</p><p><br></p><p>“When you’re having a panic attack and people go, what do you need? You don't know what you need.\"</p><p><br></p><p><strong><u>More about Stephanie Burns</u></strong></p><p><br></p><p>Find her books and email info via her <a href=\"http://www.stephanieburns.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">website</a> or go to her <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/StephanieBurnsHQ\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">facebook</a> or <a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-a-burns-phd-09bb9827b/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">linkedin.</a></p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>You can get involved with the podcast online</strong></p><p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p><p>On facebook in our community:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/groups/challengesthatchangeus</a></p><p>Or on Instagram: @challengesthatchangeus</p><p>If you want to contact the podcast, email us here:&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:support@challengesthatchangeus.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">support@challengesthatchangeus.com</a></p><p>Or check out our website:&nbsp;<a href=\"http://www.challengesthatchangeus.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.Challengesthatchangeus.com</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>If you want to find out more about what Ali does, check out her business via the website:</p><p><a href=\"http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://www.trialtitudeperformance.com.au</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>For her other business you can find it through the websites:</p><p><a href=\"http://www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.altitudefitnessarmidale.com.au</a></p><p>@trialtitudeperformance</p>","author_name":"Ali Flynn"}