{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/61de0665cc27c20014ea15cf/6aa873411c7670839a8de8b0?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Getting Back Up After You’ve Been Brought to Your Knees | Mark Nepo","description":"<p>Martial artists spend years learning how to fall before they learn much of anything else. The rest of us just brace, then wonder why the landing does so much damage.</p><p><br></p><p>This is a best-of conversation, first aired in 2023, and it has only gotten more useful with time.</p><p><br></p><p>Mark Nepo is a poet and spiritual teacher who has been working in poetry and spirituality for more than fifty years. His book The Book of Awakening was a #1 New York Times bestseller, he has written twenty-six books translated into more than twenty languages, and he was named one of Oprah's SuperSoul 100. In his thirties, he was diagnosed with a rare form of lymphoma, and that experience runs underneath everything he writes about adversity, grief, and what it costs to stay open. He wrote <a href=\"https://amzn.to/3PSmnre\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Falling Down and Getting Up</em></a> when his cancer years came flooding back during the pandemic. Since this conversation first aired, Mark has published <em>The Fifth Season: Creativity in the Second Half of Life</em>.</p><p><br></p><p>What you'll explore in this conversation:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why aikido teaches students how to fall before anything else, and what that translates to when the fall is emotional rather than physical</li><li>The journal question Mark asks people in circle that tends to surface, fast, whose voice you have actually been living under</li><li>What a friend in the depths of grief told him about \"the life after tears,\" and the line that separates it from everything that came before</li><li>The difference between grounding and chasing, and the small reorientation that changes where you go looking for a life</li><li>What happened in a bar after the Iraq war that taught him how to feel for pain he had never lived through</li></ul><p><br></p><p>If you are somewhere in the middle of a fall, or still carrying one that never quite finished, this conversation offers you something steadier than advice: company, and a way to keep going that doesn't ask you to pretend you're fine.</p><p><br></p><p>You can find Mark at: <a href=\"https://marknepo.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Website</a> | <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/mark_nepo/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a> | <a href=\"https://www.goodlifeproject.com/podcast/how-to-support-someone-who-is-grieving-mark-nepo-best-of\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Episode Transcript</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Check out our sponsors and resources: </strong><a href=\"https://www.goodlifeproject.com/sponsors/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Visit Our Sponsor Page</strong></a></p>","author_name":"Jonathan Fields / Acast"}