{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/61d12d96dec7b7001325a05f/623012ca8fd9fd0013b6cc69?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Q&A: How to find a good Domme and stay in Her good graces","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/61d12d96dec7b7001325a05f/1641111833324-07a3ee2856738bdf83f75365846b97ff.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>In this Q&amp;A episode, Mistress Damiana Chi answers questions from her listeners, Mike, Stephen, and Jerome, who had 2 questions.</p><p><br></p><p>Mike:</p><p>“I was just wondering what advice you might have for someone who has trouble expressing their kink side for a number of years and doesn’t really think they are going down the right avenues and just wants to delve a bit deeper into the BDSM community but doesn’t really know where to start.”</p><p><br></p><p>Stephen:</p><p>“My question is about staying in good graces with your dominant. I’m a submissive and as a client and I often worry about doing the wrong thing. It’s so important to me that the dominant actually like me. I get nervous often so just any advice you could give on being a good submissive would be super interesting to me and much appreciated. Thank you!”</p><p><br></p><p>Jerome:</p><p>“Hello, this is Jerome from France. What would you say is the difference between kinksters, subs and slaves? Thanks a lot!”</p><p><br></p><p>Jerome:</p><p>“Hello I will be meeting a pro domme for the very first time shortly. What would be your recommendations to make this a success?”</p><p><br></p><p>Mistress Damiana answers these thoughtful questions from male subs who really care about making sure they understand the best way to go about meeting dommes, making a good first impression, and staying in their good graces.&nbsp;Subs who have these concerns are actually exactly the type of thoughtful, sincere, respectful sub that every domme wants to play with.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, Mistress Damiana spoke about a course for submissives called \"Be Your Best Submissive Self\".&nbsp;It is a 4-hour live, online Zoom course available to all subs of any gender worldwide.&nbsp;If you’re interested in getting on the mailing list to get notified for when this course is offered next, go to <a href=\"https://www.mistressdamianachi.com/be-your-best-submissive-self\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">mistressdamianachi.com/be-your-best-submissive-self</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Also in this episode, reference was made to <a href=\"https://www.consciouskinkcommunity.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.ConsciousKinkCommunity.com</a> - a private, personally-vetted members only community of kinksters who share a like-minded consciousness about being respectful and supportive of one another, in a safe container where we all can share and connect about anything kink related.&nbsp;If this resonates, you are welcome to click the link above to learn more and request to join.</p><p><br></p><p>Special thanks goes out to Mistress Damiana’s newest Patreon patrons for supporting this podcast!</p><p>Special access patrons: Cynthia C., Mark R.</p><p>VIP Patrons: Mistress Persephone Rose, Domina Flora, Richard Tackett</p><p><br></p><p>Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D. at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://damianachiphd.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">​damianachiphd.com</a>&nbsp;and on most social media platforms at&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/damianachiphd/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">​@damianachiphd</a>.&nbsp;Her lectures and interviews can be seen on&nbsp;<a href=\"https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_yehNDOhy7vOOKosQzI3Olqy6w5rgtB5\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">​YouTube</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>If you would like to support Mistress Damiana’s “Lightworkers who play in the Dark” Podcast, please become her patron by going to <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/damianachiphd\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Patreon.com/damianachiphd</a> to join as a member, where you can connect with her in fun ways, like participating on the Q&amp;A episodes, psychodrama domination episodes, and access to her private HiHo group, where you can do 1-on1 personal video chats with Mistress Damiana.&nbsp;Your support is much appreciated 🙏</p><p><br></p><p>And many thanks and gratitude to the editor, the lovely Mistress Persephone Rose 🌹</p>","author_name":"Mistress Damiana Chi, Ph.D."}