{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/615443a6bd740600176937d0/631f646f394b3800143e50d6?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Does Your Child Tend Towards Victimhood?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/615443a6bd740600176937d0/1634430949491-5fc625030600b1b9b344ead5c69d9560.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Today I want to talk about the symptoms of a difficult identity and offer a bit of help. No parent wants to think about their child being a victim, but we all carry the tendency that’s minor or major or somewhere in between.</p><p><br></p><p>2:05 – 4:47</p><ul><li>If you let a child get away with adopting victimhood as a way to experience life, it will become habitual.</li><li>The symptoms of victimhood can include:</li><li>Not wanting to go to school (and using physical or emotional pain as an excuse)</li><li>Not feeling safe</li><li>People pleasing so they don’t get bullied (but they get bullied anyway</li><li>Feeling anxious</li><li>Withdrawing</li><li>When your kids don’t want to go to school and claim an illness, one thing you can do is…</li><li>Parents often give in when their child is a victim…</li><li>Don’t despair, it takes time to make these changes, and when you notice them, you can take pleasure in your peaceful, positive parenting style</li></ul><p><br></p>","author_name":"Brenda Miller"}