{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/6a7fbda4f8e81c43951829dc?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"1826 || how to forgive (what the science says)","description":"<p>Forgiveness is not an all-or-nothing process. You can partially release by choosing to stop ruminating, and even if you don’t feel entirely at peace yet, it is important to recognize that you have made meaningful progress. Every step you take away from feeling resentment is a step toward your sense of freedom. -  <a href=\"https://positivepsychology.com/team/kinga-mnich/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Kinga Mnich, PhD</strong></a>&nbsp;</p><h3><br></h3><h3>1. Know exactly what you are forgiving</h3><h3>2. Commit to forgiving for your own benefit</h3><h3>3. Separate the person from the act</h3><h3>4. Release unenforceable rules</h3><h3>5. Redirect your energy toward your own life</h3><p><br></p><p>THE SOURCE:</p><p><br></p><ol><li><a href=\"https://positivepsychology.com/neuroscience-of-forgiveness/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://positivepsychology.com/neuroscience-of-forgiveness/</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.neurologylive.com/view/neurobiology-forgiveness\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.neurologylive.com/view/neurobiology-forgiveness</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.simplypsychology.com/articles/forgiveness-psychology-science\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.simplypsychology.com/articles/forgiveness-psychology-science</a></li></ol><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>Read <a href=\"https://makeyourdamnbed.medium.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Julie's Medium Blog</a>.</p><p>Support<a href=\"https://account.venmo.com/u/Juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> JULIE (and the show!)</a></p><p>Support + get some bonus stuff over on <a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/c/MYDBpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">PATREON</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Get an occasional personal email from me:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/networks/6152264dc28ad2001383af43/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com</a></p><p>Tune in on <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/networks/6152264dc28ad2001383af43/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/instagram.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">INSTAGRAM</a> AND<em> </em><a href=\"https://open.acast.com/networks/6152264dc28ad2001383af43/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/youtube.com/juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em>YOUTUBE</em></a> or <a href=\"https://www.tiktok.com/@mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">TIKTOK</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Info on <a href=\"https://nwtrcc.org/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">War Tax Resistance.</a></p><p>Donate to the<a href=\"https://www.pcrf.net/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> Palestinian Children's Relief Fund </a>and the <a href=\"https://sdnrlf.com/#:~:text=Who%20We%20Are,Ways%20to%20Give\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Sudan Relief Fund</a></p><p><br></p><p><em>The opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.&nbsp;</em></p>","author_name":"Julie Merica"}