{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/67216bfbb4c51fd5696c5f97?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"1268 || disagree better || hope for cynics || 7","description":"<p>\"Studies reveal a recipe for disagreeing better:</p><p><br></p><ol><li>Good disagreers ask questions instead of making statements.</li><li>They work to get underneath people’s opinions to their stories.</li><li>When they spot common ground, good disagreers name it.</li><li>When they are unsure about something, they say so rather than pretending to be confident.</li></ol><p><br></p><p>These ingredients each decrease the chance that dissent will devolve into toxic conflict. But good disagreement is more than nice; it’s powerful. In experiments, people given the recipe you see here listened more intently and asked better questions. But the people they talked with also became more open-minded, even though they received no training. Outrage is contagious, but so are curiosity and humility.” - Jamil Zaki</p><p><br></p><p>RESOURCES:<a href=\"https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_find_hope_when_youre_feeling_cynical\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_to_find_hope_when_youre_feeling_cynical</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.theguardian.com/books/article/2024/aug/23/hope-for-cynics-by-jamil-zaki-review-beating-the-trust-recession\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.theguardian.com/books/article/2024/aug/23/hope-for-cynics-by-jamil-zaki-review-beating-the-trust-recession</a></p><p><a href=\"https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/in-hope-for-cynics-researcher-explores-how-seeing-the-good-in-others-is-good-for-you\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/in-hope-for-cynics-researcher-explores-how-seeing-the-good-in-others-is-good-for-you</a></p><p><br></p><p>THE BOOK: <a href=\"https://www.jamil-zaki.com/hope-for-cynics\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.jamil-zaki.com/hope-for-cynics</a></p><p><br></p><p>DONATE:<a href=\"http://www.pcrf.net/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.pcrf.net</a></p><p>Get Involved:<a href=\"https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/edit#gid=1653697245\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Operation Olive Branch: Spreadsheets + Links</a></p><p><br></p><p>GET AN OCCASIONAL PERSONAL EMAIL FROM ME:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com</a></p><p>TUNE IN ON INSTAGRAM FOR COOL CONTENT:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast</a></p><p>OR BE A REAL GEM + TUNE IN ON PATREON:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.patreon.com/MYDBpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.patreon.com/MYDBpodcast</a></p><p><em>OR WATCH ON YOUTUBE:</em><a href=\"http://www.youtube.com/juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em> www.youtube.com/juliemerica</em></a><em>&nbsp;</em></p><p><br></p><p><em>The opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.</em></p>","author_name":"Julie Merica"}