{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/66e364622b0607eaa4b63bae?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"1224 || debating hacks (how to diffuse an argument) ","description":"<p>Reasoning with the unreasonable can feel impossible, but here are some techniques to diffuse intense arguments and encourage others to challenge their own cognitive dissonance with curiosity and care. </p><p><br></p><p>For starters, it's important to find common values to come back to, use metaphors and anecdotes to break down complex ideas and humanize them, remember it's you vs. the problem (not you vs. them), and remember that you're attempting to better understand each other - rather than change each other. </p><p><br></p><p>RESOURCE 1: <a href=\":https://tinybuddha.com/blog/when-you-strongly-disagree-with-someone-how-to-find-common-ground/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://tinybuddha.com/blog/when-you-strongly-disagree-with-someone-how-to-find-common-ground/</a></p><p>RESOURCE 2: <a href=\"https://www.betterup.com/blog/finding-common-ground-with-anyone-a-quick-and-easy-guide\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.betterup.com/blog/finding-common-ground-with-anyone-a-quick-and-easy-guide</a></p><p>YOUTUBE VID BONUS: REASONING WITH UNREASONABLE PEOPLE: <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFWF_VnlFAg\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFWF_VnlFAg</a></p><p><br></p><p>DONATE:<a href=\"http://www.pcrf.net\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.pcrf.net</a></p><p>Get Involved:<a href=\"https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1vtMLLOzuc6GpkFySyVtKQOY2j-Vvg0UsChMCFst_WLA/edit#gid=1653697245\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Operation Olive Branch: Spreadsheets + Links</a></p><p><br></p><p>GET AN OCCASIONAL PERSONAL EMAIL FROM ME:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com</a></p><p>TUNE IN ON INSTAGRAM FOR COOL CONTENT:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast</a></p><p>OR BE A REAL GEM + TUNE IN ON PATREON:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.patreon.com/MYDBpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.patreon.com/MYDBpodcast</a></p><p><em>OR WATCH ON YOUTUBE:</em><a href=\"http://www.youtube.com/juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><em> www.youtube.com/juliemerica</em></a><em>&nbsp;</em></p><p><br></p><p><em>The opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.</em></p><p><br></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Julie Merica"}