{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/63cd730eb126b3001127310c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"706 || the people pleaser pause","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/1653268330489-302af9cc8ab6429897ac2b239aed39d6.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>\tThe best strategy to ensure I’m not people pleasing and I’m simply “pleasing people” that I’ve found for me is: Forcing myself to take a minute to think before doing pretty much anything. I’m a mover and a shaker. I see a need, I fill a need. I like fixing. But the problem is, I can sometimes commit to things WAY before being ready. Or I can start fixing things that weren’t my issues to fix. Taking a few seconds to really consider if 1. I want to. 2. I can. 3. I should. Has changed the game for me.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>RESOURCES: <a href=\"https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-stop-being-a-people-pleaser-5184412 \" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-stop-being-a-people-pleaser-5184412 </a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>﻿</strong>WATCH<strong>: </strong><a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.youtube.com/juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.youtube.com/juliemerica</a></p><p><br></p><p>GET A MONTHLY NOTE FROM ME: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>BUY SOME MERCH: <a href=\"https://www.teepublic.com/stores/make-your-damn-bed-podcast?ref_id=27657\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/make-your-damn-bed-podcast?ref_id=27657</a></p><p><br></p><p>TUNE IN ON INSTAGRAM FOR COOL CONTENT: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast</a></p><p><br></p><p>OR BE A REAL GEM + TUNE IN ON PATREON: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.patreon.com/MYDBpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.patreon.com/MYDBpodcast</a></p><p><br></p><p>This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.betterhelp.com/makeyourbed\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.betterhelp.com/makeyourbed </a></p><p><br></p><p><em>The opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. </em></p>","author_name":"Julie Merica"}