{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/62c0c92ab00d000012a07a6e?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"509 || avoiding the love bomb ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/1653268330489-302af9cc8ab6429897ac2b239aed39d6.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Lovebombing:  A common manipulation technique is love bombing: \"Love bombing\" refers to behavior patterns where, at the beginning of the relationship, a partner showers the other with over-the-top attention, gifts, affection, etc. See: Kanye West's truckload of roses gesture...</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/love-bombing\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/love-bombing</a>: \"<em>Genuine affection is mutual and should unfold at a pace that is comfortable for both parties. Love bombing, by contrast, tends to feel one-sided—with one partner showering the other with gifts, praise, and declarations of love—and moves at a pace where one partner feels overwhelmed or as if they’re caught up in a whirlwind. Someone repeatedly crossing stated boundaries—even if they claim to have positive motives for doing so—may also be an indicator of manipulative intentions. Similarly, while it’s normal for new partners to spend a lot of time together, feeling isolated from one’s family and friends because one is spending all their time with a new love interest may suggest that the relationship is falling into unhealthy patterns.\"</em></p><p><br></p><p>Resource/inspiration: <a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/climateresilienceproject/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.instagram.com/climateresilienceproject/</a></p><p>DONATE IF YOU CAN: <a href=\"https://secure.actblue.com/donate/givetolocalfunds\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://secure.actblue.com/donate/givetolocalfunds</a></p><p>GO AD FREE: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.patreon.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.patreon.com/mydbpodcast</a></p><p>SEE MY FACE + OTHER CONTENT: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.youtube.com/juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.youtube.com/juliemerica </a></p><p>GET A MONTHLY NOTE FROM ME:<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com </a></p><p>TUNE IN ON INSTAGRAM FOR DAILY(ish) QUOTES: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">www.instagram.com/mydbpodcast</a></p><p><br></p><p>LUH YOU.</p>","author_name":"Julie Merica"}