{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/6292bdeca171d40012ef62a7?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Day 474 || how to be less judgy","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/1653268330489-302af9cc8ab6429897ac2b239aed39d6.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>This therapy quick tip Thursday brings us the concept of the fundamental attribution error - which refers to an individual's tendency to attribute another's actions to their character or personality, while attributing their own personal behaviors to external situational factors outside of their control.</p><p><br></p><p>In other words, we tend to cut ourselves a break while holding others 100 percent accountable for their actions. For instance when a driver cut you off -  they’re an asshole but when you cut someone off, it was because you misjudged traffic + it was a one time thing.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>we should offer others the same courtesy of the gentlest possible interpretation, if we can + have no other reason to doubt them. </p><p>&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;</strong></p><p><strong>65% subject blamed behavior on others when bad things happening but blame self only 44% and situation more often. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>RESOURCES: <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/%C2%A0https://online.hbs.edu/blog/post/the-fundamental-attribution-error?sf55808584=1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;https://online.hbs.edu/blog/post/the-fundamental-attribution-error?sf55808584=1</a></p><p><br></p><p>See the extended bonus versions of episodes like this on <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.youtube.com/juliemerica\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">youtube.com/juliemerica</a> and rate us 5 stars on apple podcasts if you haven't already.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>If can <strong>share</strong> this with a friend (or enemy) that you think would benefit from it, that would truly be a game changer.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Subscribe to the newsletter at www.<a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">makeyourdamnbedpodcast</a>.com or visit our <a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/6152264dc28ad2001383af42/episodes/www.patreon.com/mydbpodcast\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>patreon</strong></a> for highly exclusive bonus content.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Support our sponsors, because they support us (which supports the accessibility of this daily content).&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Honestly, though, <strong><em>thank</em></strong> <strong><em>you</em></strong> for simply being here. for existing. it really means more than you know.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>luhh ya.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><em>The opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. All content, including text, graphics, images and information, contained or presented is for general information purposes only.&nbsp;</em></p><p><em>All content is presented on an \"as-is\" basis.</em></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Julie Merica"}