{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/60e8deaefb090f0013116d69/6968054fa3b74ba76bd29ddd?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Sex in the Third Person: Why You Leave Your Body to Watch Yourself Perform","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/60e8deaefb090f0013116d69/1768424576542-4192752e-bfd3-46a9-b133-daee1b989033.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>If you have ever felt like you were watching yourself perform intimacy from a camera lens installed in the ceiling, this is the episode you've been waiting for. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Together, we’ll be diagnosing a very specific, silent fracture in the modern psyche: the gap between <em>edibility</em> (how delicious you look to others) and <em>appetite</em> (what you actually hunger for).</p><p><br></p><p>For a generation raised in the digital Wild West, we learned very early on that safety comes from being a \"Good Object.” (The goal being to be pleasing and curated.) But the tension required to maintain that image is physically incompatible with the softness required to feel actual pleasure.</p><p><br></p><p>We’ll go beyond the standard (and extremely played-out) \"empowerment\" scripts to look at the darker root causes of <em>why</em> we leave our bodies during sex. We explore the \"millennial psyop\" of early internet conditioning and the concept of functional dissociation.</p><p><br></p><p>From the esoteric concept of the <em>Eidolon</em> (the phantom double) in Greek mythology to a shocking historical reframe involving Napoleon Bonaparte’s (kinky af) letters, we’ll dismantle every aspect of performative sex. This episode is your permission to stop performing for a ghost and finally inhabit the first person.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>UNLOCK THE FULL EPISODE ON PATREON, </strong><a href=\"https://www.patreon.com/posts/sex-in-third-why-148231425?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&amp;utm_source=copyLink&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>CLICK HERE</strong></a><strong> (or visit </strong><a href=\"patreon.com/backfromtheborderline\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>patreon.com/backfromtheborderline</strong></a><strong>). </strong></p><p><strong><em>To know as soon as we drop the MOODS waitlist, follow us on Instagram at </em></strong><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/moods.codex/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em>@moods.codex. </em></strong></a></p>","author_name":"mollie adler"}