The Minimalists are joined by Dr. Orion Taraban to talk about loyalty, respect, grace, love, friendship, forgiveness, and other nontransactable goods.
Discussed in this episode:
How do I stop clinging to the good relationship memories from the past if they make me feel miserable now? (2:11)
When is loyalty no longer worth it? (23:37)
Listener tip: Sensory sensitivity is linked to overstimulation. (56:16)
Is honesty a nontransactable good? (59:04)
What are Dr. Taraban's insights on sensory processing disorders? (1:00:34)
When is emotional abuse grounds to leave a relationship? (1:07:24)Should I let go of my inconsiderate and egocentric friends? (1:24:34)
Is it ever okay to keep a secret from my significant other? (1:46:18)
Does it make sense to stay in a miserable marriage for the kids? (2:20:45)
What are the downsides of leaving your valuable hoard to the next generation to deal with? (2:34:12)
Talkaboutable: Loyalty in the movie The Town. (2:54:31)
Added Value: An unreleased song about emotional insecurity after a relationship. (3:05:10)
Added Value: Ryan Story
Book: Conflict is Not Abuse
Book: Emotional Clutter
Book: Everything That Remains
Book: The Evolution of Desire
Book: Love People, Use Things
Book: The Untethered Soul
Book: The Value of Others
Book: The War of Art
Counseling: Clutter Counseling
Event: Sunday Symposium
Game: Minimalism Game
Podcast: Conflict Frequencies
Podcast: Dating Clutter
Watch: “Love Like the Sun”
Watch: “Staying for the Kids”
Watch: “The Town”
Watch: “Truth vs. Utility”
Website: Dr. Orion Taraban
YouTube: Psych Hacks
Recorded at Earthing Studios.
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