{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/60b20104ffcfab00117e6199/6a295a1e7fe177e75b2f4344?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Too Nice vs Too Selfish — Finding the 'Healthy' Middle Ground","description":"<p>In this episode I look at two basic traits people often have and whether</p><p>they impact our health.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>People pleasing:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/my-side-of-the-couch/202408/people-pleasing-as-a-symptom-of-childhood-trauma\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/my-side-of-the-couch/202408/people-pleasing-as-a-symptom-of-childhood-trauma</a></p><p><br></p><p>Exhaustion from being too nice?&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-genius-of-empathy/202412/are-you-exhausted-from-being-too-nice\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-genius-of-empathy/202412/are-you-exhausted-from-being-too-nice</a></p><p><br></p><p>Emotional suppression:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24119947/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24119947/</a></p><p><br></p><p>Selfishness of different kinds?&nbsp;<a href=\"https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7265883/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7265883/</a></p><p><br></p><p>Jungian masculine/ feminine archetypes:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://scottjeffrey.com/king-warrior-magician-lover-masculine-archetypes/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://scottjeffrey.com/king-warrior-magician-lover-masculine-archetypes/</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Healthy selfishness?&nbsp;<a href=\"https://andrewwilkowilkinson.medium.com/10-reasons-why-being-selfish-is-important-for-you-e5a28bf22b13\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://andrewwilkowilkinson.medium.com/10-reasons-why-being-selfish-is-important-for-you-e5a28bf22b13</a></p><p><br></p><p>Amandaland: <a href=\"https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/m0024pyy/amandaland\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episodes/m0024pyy/amandaland</a></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Dr Ayan Panja"}