{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6076a8a518b4287157214ecb/625002c1ea8bea0012b6f3e2?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Shawn Costley | Let the Grief Out","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6076a8a518b4287157214ecb/1619352048373-ed7d763c914db3b9c370cbf16ee00350.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Modern life is so busy, so full of things, distractive, and immediate. There is little time to enjoy one thing at a time, let alone reflect, analyze, and grieve. The fast-paced society demands our attention and immediate reaction to blend in with harmony. But grief doesn't work like that; we can't do it while we scroll on our phones. We need to set up a time for it, make an appointment with ourselves, and show up.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Our guest, Shawn Costley, brings this powerful concept to our discussion, explaining the need and benefits of taking care of ourselves in grief. To ask for a minute if we need to, cry our eyes out if we feel like it, and reach for help if we realize we can't cope with the pain.</p><p><br></p><p>Shawn Costley is the Director of Huntsville Corporate Housing Solutions and the Founder of Madison's Mighty Men of Valor.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>In this first part of our interview, Shawn talks about his upbringing, traveling around the world and meeting new cultures, and at the same time, being incapable of lifelong friendships. Shawn shared his thoughts on the harmful effects of COVID on people's lives, the devastating effects of losing loved people back to back during the pandemic, and the importance of taking good care of ourselves before trying to help someone else.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Some Questions I Ask:</strong></p><ul><li>At what point in your life did you decide you wanted to be different? (5:35)</li><li>Could you share your perspective about all the losses, especially since the pandemic started? Death, job losses, and health losses? (10:39)</li><li>What would you tell someone who is drowning in pain and grief? (26:14)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>In This Episode, You Will Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Shawn talks about how it was for him growing up constantly moving (4:12)</li><li>Make an appointment with yourself (14:08)</li><li>Even Jesus cried, so it is okay to cry (19:31)</li><li>Repassing the life of the person that we just lost is essential for proper grief recovery (25:01)</li><li>Breathe first. First-care is everything (32:05)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>Growing Through Grief System - <a href=\"https://www.coachingtotheheart.org/grow-through-grief-system/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Book Now</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Shawn:</strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/shawn.costley.3/about\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Let's Connect!</strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/coachingtotheheart\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook</a></li><li><a href=\"https://twitter.com/coachingtoheart\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/coachingtotheheart/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-curtis-grief-recovery/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.coachingtotheheart.org\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Website</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/livingandgrowingthroughgrief/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook Group - Growing Through Grief Together</a></li></ul>","author_name":"diana curtis"}