{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6076a8a518b4287157214ecb/6246bec8b1473a0014ae0f0b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"The Love Doctor | Ways to Attract and Stay in Your Ideal Relationship","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6076a8a518b4287157214ecb/1619352048373-ed7d763c914db3b9c370cbf16ee00350.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Today's episode is the second part of our conversation with The Love Doctor, Barry Selby. This time, we include love and joy in relationships into the discussion, and Barry shares his secret sauce for long-lasting relationships.</p><p><br></p><p>Barry Selby is a Speaker, Bestselling Author, and Expert Facilitator who helps women leaders find balance in love, life, and business. He has been a Ministry Director and Practitioner at the Agape International Spiritual Centertitioner for over 28 years, and he has a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology. Barry authored the book \"50 Ways to love your lover,\" which includes powerful principles for passionate relationships filled with deeply fulfilling and juicy romance.</p><p><br></p><p>We explore the link between grief and relationships and the grief process we go through after a breakup. Barry dives into the influence of our formative years, the things we learn in them have on our adult lives, and how we choose to interact with others. Barry sheds some light on people's behavioral challenges or bad habits they imprint in their relationships and the importance of going through a self-healing journey before trying to heal someone else.</p><p><br></p><p>Finally, Barry talks about feminine magnificence and what it means to be a masculine man. He kindly offers advice for people thinking of getting their feet into the dating world again.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>In This Episode, You Will Learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Sometimes is not about missing the person; it is about missing the possibilities of what could've happened (4:57)</li><li>We learn about love by watching others (6:30)</li><li>Stop projecting childhood traumas into your partner (12:34)</li><li>Never paint over rust. Barry shares some tips to deal with bad habits (15:26)</li><li>About Barry's background and why he decided to be a champion for the divine feminine (18:43)</li><li>We must get clear on who we are and what do we want from a relationship before putting ourselves out there (25:16)</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>Barry Selby <a href=\"https://www.barryselby.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">website</a></li><li>Book: Barry Selby - <a href=\"https://www.barryselby.com/book/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">50 Ways To Love Your Lover</a></li><li>Growing Through Grief System - <a href=\"https://www.coachingtotheheart.org/grow-through-grief-system/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Book Now</a></li><li>Book: Besser van der Kolk - <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748/ref=sr_1_1?crid=242TY25DRPXV4&amp;keywords=the+body+keeps+the+score&amp;qid=1647354222&amp;sprefix=the+body+keep%2Caps%2C382&amp;sr=8-1\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Body Keeps the Score</a>: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Connect with Barry:</strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/barryselby/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/therealbarryselby/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Let's Connect!</strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/coachingtotheheart\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook</a></li><li><a href=\"https://twitter.com/coachingtoheart\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/coachingtotheheart/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-curtis-grief-recovery/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.coachingtotheheart.org\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Website</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/groups/livingandgrowingthroughgrief/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook Group - Growing Through Grief Together</a></li></ul>","author_name":"diana curtis"}