{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6074336b81f6d26b0fd553e2/6131100dd11b2d001402dde4?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Emma John: Being Single In Your Forties ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6074336b81f6d26b0fd553e2/1630605266414-2c3541cc3767763586d58e775bf0d4df.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Emma John is an award winning journalist and author. Her most recent book, <em>Self-Contained</em>, is a memoir which chronicles what it’s like to enter your 40s without having been in a serious long-term relationship. It’s a book that celebrates the fullness of single life – the highs and lows.</p><p><br></p><p>Our conversation is an unapologetic, unflinching look at the single experience, with a particular emphasis on how hobbies, interests and platonic relationships, as long as shorter-term romantic ones, can become centre stage –&nbsp;filling the space a relationship might otherwise.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>We also discuss:</p><p><br></p><ul><li>What it means to be ‘self-contained’</li><li>The difficulty of trying to write a narrative as a single woman (Who hasn’t met someone at the end/without a happy ending) - What is my narrative arc- without the happy ending?&nbsp;</li><li>The one constant in your life is you</li><li>The myth that it’s only OK to be single if you’re living a hedonistic, free lifestyle</li><li>Why solo travel isn’t really solitary –&nbsp;especially if you’re in South Carolina</li><li>Why following your passion can be a brilliant reason for doing things alone</li><li>Why your life starts right now –&nbsp;not when you meet your ‘Other Half’</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Emma John’s book, <em>Self Contained,</em> is <a href=\"https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08WYMF5B8\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">available to buy now</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>My book, <em>Alonement: How To Be Alone and Absolutely Own It, </em>is also out now from <a href=\"https://amzn.to/3AGhHul\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Amazon</a>, <a href=\"https://fave.co/3mb8ztN\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Waterstones</a> and all good bookshops.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Social links:</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Twitter:</strong></p><p><strong>*&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://twitter.com/ChezSpecter\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@ChezSpecter</a></p><p>*</p><p><a href=\"https://twitter.com/em_john\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@em_john</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:</strong></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/alonementofficial/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@alonementofficial</a></p><p>*</p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/chezspecter/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@ChezSpecter</a></p><p>*</p><p><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/emmajohnauthor/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">@emmajohnauthor</a></p><p>*</p><p>Contact: press@alonement.com</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Francesca Specter"}