{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/6074336b81f6d26b0fd553e2/60743375fa18682cd0b06e22?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Michelle Elman: When Being Selfish Means Choosing Yourself","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/6074336b81f6d26b0fd553e2/60743375fa18682cd0b06e22.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p class=\"p1\">Ever struggled to set boundaries in your life? If this sounds like you (and – let’s face it – it's most of us), then this week’s episode, starring ‘The Joy of Being Selfish’ author Michelle Elman, will prove an absolute saviour. Michelle is a life coach and body positive activist, best known to her 300,000 social media followers for her global Scarred Not Scared campaign. Fascinatingly, we recorded this episode London to Hong Kong – where Michelle was beginning a 14-day stay at a quarantine hotel until a strict set of rules (she wasn’t even allowed a room key to enable her to leave). Still, Michelle is full of energy and sage advice: we discuss everything from her unique self-love mantra – ‘I’m going to love myself and not make it anyone else’s job’ – and the importance of alone time for learning to love yourself. We also have a candid conversation around the loneliness that comes from setting boundaries in your relationships with others. Finally, we discuss Michelle’s love of paddle boarding – which is, for her, the ultimate alonement.</p>\n\n<p class=\"p2\"> </p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">You can order Michelle’s book, <em>The Joy of Being Selfish, </em>now from <a href='https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B08KYF8PXR'>Amazon</a> and <a href='https://www.waterstones.com/book/the-joy-of-being-selfish/michelle-elman/9781787396777'>Waterstones</a>.</p>\n\n<p class=\"p2\"> </p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">You can also pre-order my upcoming title, <em>Alonement: How To Be Alone and Absolutely Own It, </em>now from <a href='https://www.amazon.co.uk/Alonement-Francesca-Specter/dp/1529412617'>Amazon</a> and <a href='https://www.waterstones.com/book/alonement/francesca-specter//9781529412611'>Waterstones</a>.</p>\n\n<p class=\"p2\"> </p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">Twitter:</p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">*  </p>\n\n<p class=\"p3\"><a href='https://twitter.com/ChezSpecter'>@ChezSpecter</a></p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">*</p>\n\n<p class=\"p3\"><a href='https://twitter.com/ScarredNtScared'>@ScarredNtScared</a></p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">*</p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">Instagram:</p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\"> </p>\n\n<p class=\"p3\"><a href='https://www.instagram.com/alonementofficial/'>@alonementofficial</a></p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">*</p>\n\n<p class=\"p3\"><a href='https://www.instagram.com/chezspecter/'>@ChezSpecter</a></p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">*</p>\n\n<p class=\"p3\"><a href='https://www.instagram.com/scarrednotscared/'>@scarrednotscared</a></p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">*</p>\n\n<p class=\"p1\">Contact: press@alonement.com</p>","author_name":"Francesca Specter"}