{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5fe36a71f3869269deaf79a5/61caf393514cfe0012b28039?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":" 0415 – Silence Shows You’re Listening","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5fe36a71f3869269deaf79a5/1640517727663-c9732320b1dc90956152d18c807b99bc.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>2022.02.19 – 0415 – Silence Shows You’re Listening</strong></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Silence shows you’re listening </strong></p><p>In an interview, your guest has just made a significant or poignant remark, and to show respect and empathy – pause. </p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>The strategic pause adds tension and anticipation and indicates comprehension and reflection. It shows you are actively listening and value their comment. It helps build trust.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>…. but only if it is not followed by an “<em>errrm</em>” or “<em>ummm</em>”. Those kinds of words will merely show you are ill prepared.</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>It’s a great skill to have in your repertoire but should be used sporadically for best effect.&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Peter Stewart"}