{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"","title":"PSP 130: Why Our Child’s Anxiety, OCD or Behaviors are Worse for Us","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5f9b18f378a9f70fee092ff4/5f9b1912918e5b433b5ca7f9.jpg?height=200","description":" “We don’t see it, he’s great for us.” “Nope, we don’t have any issues with her.” “Anxiety? Are you sure?” “OCD? I never see him wash his hands.” (eye roll to that one) “He is a perfect angel when he is with me.”\nUgh. \n\n\nThese types of comments can make you doubt all that you know and see.\n\n\nIs it me? Am I causing her anxiety? Am I causing this behavior? Do I make his OCD worse?\n\n\nYou are not alone. Parents everywhere are having these thoughts. They toss and turn before they go to sleep. They have pangs of doubt, guilt and anger when their child turns into a puddle for them and holds it together for everyone else.\n\n\nSo what is going on? Well let’s put the parental guilt and shame down for a minute and look at some alternative perspectives. In this week’s AT Parenting Survival Podcast episode, I talk about why many of our kids with anxiety or OCD have the hardest time when they are us. And why it often has nothing to do with the parenting.\n\n\n***\n\n\nThis podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be used to replace the guidance of a qualified professional.\n\n\nInterested in my AT Parenting Community Membership? Click below to join us!\nhttp://www.atparentingcommunity.com\n\n\nSign up for my weekly email newsletter:\nhttps://pages.convertkit.com/740ba8cd83/92109b7172\n\n\nTo sign up for my online class on How to Crush Social Anxiety (for Adults & Kids 10 and Up):\nhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/crush-social-anxiety\n\n\nTo sign up for my online class: Parenting Kids with OCD \nhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/child-ocd\n\n\nTo sign up for my online class: Crush Moral OCD in Kids\nhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/moral-ocd\n\n\nTo sign up for my online class: Teaching Kids to Crush Anxiety\nhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com/p/crush-anxiety\n\n\nUltimate list of helpful anxiety products:\nhttps://www.anxioustoddlers.com/reduce-child-anxiety/ \n\n\nFor more parenting support visit:\nhttp://www.anxioustoddlers.com\n\n\nTo join my private Facebook group visit:\nhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/ATparentinganxiouskids/\n\n\nFor AT Parenting Online Classes visit:\nhttp://anxioustoddlers.teachable.com\n\n\nFor my anxiety books visit:\nhttps://www.amazon.com/Natasha-Daniels/e/B011K5IIWA\n\n\nJoin the fun on my YouTube channel:\nhttps://www.youtube.com/c/anxioustoddlers78\n\n\nOther social places I hang out:\nhttp://www.facebook.com/anxioustoddlers\nhttp://www.pinterest.com/anxioustoddlers\nhttp://www.twitter.com/anxioustoddlers\nhttp://www.instagram.com/anxioustoddlers\n\n\n**