{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5eaa17597073432b7f5a651b/6ae4dc66e8cdbf26dded141d?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"112. Committed Action: Doing It Without Feeling Ready","description":"<p>Nobody puts “renew the car registration” on the Someday list.</p><p><br></p><p>There is a note on your phone, and on it, there is one thing that has been there longer than everything else. You knew which one before the sentence finished.</p><p><br></p><p>This episode is about committed action, the last of the six core psychological processes in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).</p><p><br></p><p>Dr. Z explains why you are not delaying what you do not care about, but you are delaying, with tremendous consistency, the things you care about most, why delay is an emotion-management problem rather than a time-management problem, and why the step that finally works will feel too small to match how much this matters to you.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What you will learn:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>The definition, including the specification for a small step: something you could do on the worst day of your year, that a stranger could see, with a day and a time on it.</li><li>Why the thing on your list is still perfect while it is unstarted and why postponing is preservation rather than laziness.</li><li>Why the productivity system did not touch this and why the delay gets filled with genuinely useful work.</li><li>The loop that makes it worse: the task becomes the difficult thing <em>and</em> the place you go to feel bad about yourself.</li><li>The restart rule, or the one nobody writes, and the one that decides whether you are still going in April.</li><li>Avoidant persistence: the third way of not moving, which looks exactly like moving.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources mentioned:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Procrastination webinar: How to Skillfully Tackle Procrastinating Behaviors</strong> → <u><a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/webinar-act-for-procrastination/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/webinar-act-for-procrastination/</a></u></li><li><strong>Playing-It-Safe Questionnaire (free) →</strong> <u><a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/</a></u></li><li><strong>ACT Coaching for anxiety-based struggles →</strong> <u><a href=\"https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/</a></u></li><li><strong>Therapy at East Bay Behavior Therapy Center →</strong> <u><a href=\"https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/</a></u></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>About Dr. Z</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Dr. Patricia Zurita Ona (Dr. Z) is a licensed psychologist, author of eight books, and TEDx speaker who has spent over 18 years helping overthinkers and overachievers stop letting anxiety make their decisions. She is the founder of East Bay Behavior Therapy Center in Walnut Creek, California, and the host of the Playing It Safe podcast. Her TEDx talk &quot;Stop Playing It Safe and Start Living&quot; has over 267,000 views.</p><p><br></p><p>And if this episode is helpful, I welcome a review on Apple Podcast.</p><p>_______</p><p><br></p><p>STOP LETTING ANXIETY MAKE YOUR DECISIONS</p><p><br></p><p>WHO AM I?</p><p><br></p><p>My name is Patricia E. Zurita Ona, but my clients call me Dr. Z.</p><p><br></p><p>I’m a psychologist, a passionate behaviorist, and a person that loves to make behavioral science accessible for day-to-day life. I specialize in Acceptance and Commitment skills (ACT), a form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT).</p><p><br></p><p>I have significant experience – over 18 years – working with individuals dealing with anxiety-based struggles such as perfectionism, procrastination, chronic indecision, phobias, OCD, panic, worry, and any other anxiety-related difficulties.</p><p><br></p><p>I&#39;ve published books on ACT, given a TEDx talk with 267K+ views, founded East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, and spent two decades proving one thing: Your anxiety doesn&#39;t need fixing. It needs listening to. Because most of the time, anxiety is just trying to keep you safe, the problem is when &quot;safe&quot; becomes &quot;stuck.&quot; And once you know the difference, everything changes.</p><p><br></p><p>My website is packed with resources, courses and content that will help you break free from those &quot;playing-it-safe&quot; moves and make the most out of your life!</p><p><br></p><p>GET ACT SKILLS IN YOUR INBOX:</p><p><br></p><p>Sign up to my newsletter to get actionable skills into your inbox! <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/</a></p>","author_name":"Dr. Z. - Patricia Zurita Ona, Psy.D. "}