{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5eaa17597073432b7f5a651b/6adcee85d39b76001f531691?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"111. Values: What you Actually Care About","description":"<p>This podcast episode is about values: what they are, why &quot;just set some boundaries&quot; was always going to fail, and ways to find yours in your everyday life.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What you will learn:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>A definition of values.</li><li>Why being a good parent is not a value.</li><li>The two places your direction gets supplied from when you do not have your own: approval and avoidance</li><li>Three practices to tap onto what matters to you in your everyday life.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>You can finish these:</p><ul><li>get the promotion</li><li>run the race</li><li>have the conversation with your brother</li><li>clear the inbox</li></ul><p><br></p><p>You cannot finish these:</p><ul><li>Being patient</li><li>Being honest</li><li>Being generous</li><li>Being unhurried</li></ul><p><br></p><p>The first list is goals: you complete them, you check them off, and then you need new ones.</p><p><br></p><p>The second list is values.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources mentioned:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Playing-It-Safe Questionnaire (free) →</strong> <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/</a></li><li><strong>Values-Based Review: Life Audit (free) →</strong> <a href=\"https://proud-snow-5694.ck.page/d2a5e77ba3\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://proud-snow-5694.ck.page/d2a5e77ba3</a></li><li><strong>ACT Coaching for anxiety-based struggles →</strong> <a href=\"https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/</a></li><li><strong>Therapy at East Bay Behavior Therapy Center →</strong> <a href=\"https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>About Dr. Z</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Dr. Patricia Zurita Ona (Dr. Z) is a licensed psychologist, author of eight books, and TEDx speaker who has spent over 18 years helping overthinkers and overachievers stop letting anxiety make their decisions. She is the founder of East Bay Behavior Therapy Center in Walnut Creek, California, and the host of the Playing It Safe podcast. Her TEDx talk &quot;Stop Playing It Safe and Start Living&quot; has over 267,000 views.</p><p><br></p><p>And if this episode is helpful, I welcome a review on Apple Podcast.</p><p>_______</p><p><br></p><p>STOP LETTING ANXIETY MAKE YOUR DECISIONS</p><p><br></p><p>WHO AM I?</p><p><br></p><p>My name is Patricia E. Zurita Ona, but my clients call me Dr. Z.</p><p><br></p><p>I’m a psychologist, a passionate behaviorist, and a person that loves to make behavioral science accessible for day-to-day life. I specialize in Acceptance and Commitment skills (ACT), a form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT).</p><p><br></p><p>I have significant experience – over 18 years – working with individuals dealing with anxiety-based struggles such as perfectionism, procrastination, chronic indecision, phobias, OCD, panic, worry, and any other anxiety-related difficulties.</p><p><br></p><p>I&#39;ve published books on ACT, given a TEDx talk with 260K+ views, founded East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, and spent two decades proving one thing: Your anxiety doesn&#39;t need fixing. It needs listening to. Because most of the time, anxiety is just trying to keep you safe, the problem is when &quot;safe&quot; becomes &quot;stuck.&quot; And once you know the difference, everything changes.</p><p><br></p><p>My website is packed with resources, courses and content that will help you break free from those &quot;playing-it-safe&quot; moves and make the most out of your life!</p><p><br></p><p>GET ACT SKILLS IN YOUR INBOX:</p><p><br></p><p>Sign up to my newsletter to get actionable skills into your inbox! <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/</a></p><p><br></p><p>HERE IS WHERE TO START</p><p><br></p><p>1. TAKE THE PLAYING-IT-SAFE QUESTIONNAIRE: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/</a></p><p><br></p><p>2. ONLINE COURSES: <a href=\"https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>3. PODCAST: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-podcast/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-podcast/</a></p><p><br></p><p>4. BOOKS: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/</a></p><p><br></p><p>5. BLOG: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-blog/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-blog/</a></p>","author_name":"Dr. Z. - Patricia Zurita Ona, Psy.D. "}