{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5eaa17597073432b7f5a651b/6aa0978099455f9a93ca15ae?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"107. Acceptance: When You Upgrade Your Own Feelings","description":"<p>Your mind runs a control agenda all day long. Some of its strategies are obvious: distraction, keeping busy, opting out. And some look nothing like control at all: the silver lining, the blessing count, the lesson. Same job, better manners. This episode is about acceptance, the first of the six processes in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and about the half of the definition almost nobody teaches.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>What you will learn:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why looking on the bright side belongs on the same list as distraction and having a drink.</li><li>The workability question: not <em>is it true</em>, but <em>is it giving you the life you want?</em></li><li><em>What acceptance is </em></li><li>How to practice acceptance</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Resources mentioned:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>Values-Based Review: Life Audit (free)</strong> → <a href=\"https://proud-snow-5694.ck.page/d2a5e77ba3\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://proud-snow-5694.ck.page/d2a5e77ba3</a></li><li><strong>Playing-It-Safe Questionnaire (free)</strong> → <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/</a></li><li><strong>ACT Coaching for anxiety-based struggles</strong> → <a href=\"https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/act-coaching/</a></li><li><strong>Therapy at East Bay Behavior Therapy Center</strong> → <a href=\"https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://eastbaybehaviortherapycenter.com/</a></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>About Dr. Z</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Dr. Patricia Zurita Ona (Dr. Z) is a licensed psychologist, author of eight books, and TEDx speaker who has spent over 18 years helping overthinkers and overachievers stop letting anxiety make their decisions. She is the founder of East Bay Behavior Therapy Center in Walnut Creek, California, and the host of the Playing It Safe podcast. Her TEDx talk \"Stop Playing It Safe and Start Living\" has over 267,000 views.</p><p><br></p><p>If this episode helped you recognize one playing-it-safe move in your own life, a review on Apple Podcasts means everything to me. I read every single one.</p><p>_______</p><p><br></p><p>STOP LETTING ANXIETY MAKE YOUR DECISIONS</p><p><br></p><p>WHO AM I?</p><p><br></p><p>My name is Patricia E. Zurita Ona, but my clients call me Dr. Z.</p><p><br></p><p>I’m a psychologist, a passionate behaviorist, and a person that loves to make behavioral science accessible for day-to-day life. I specialize in Acceptance and Commitment skills (ACT), a form of Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT).</p><p><br></p><p>I have significant experience – over 18 years – working with individuals dealing with anxiety-based struggles such as perfectionism, procrastination, chronic indecision, phobias, OCD, panic, worry, and any other anxiety-related difficulties.</p><p><br></p><p>I've published books on ACT, given a TEDx talk with 267K+ views, founded East Bay Behavior Therapy Center, and spent two decades proving one thing: Your anxiety doesn't need fixing. It needs listening to. Because most of the time, anxiety is just trying to keep you safe, the problem is when \"safe\" becomes \"stuck.\" And once you know the difference, everything changes.</p><p><br></p><p>My website is packed with resources, courses and content that will help you break free from those \"playing-it-safe\" moves and make the most out of your life!</p><p><br></p><p>GET ACT SKILLS IN YOUR INBOX:</p><p><br></p><p>Sign up to my newsletter to get actionable skills into your inbox! <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/</a></p><p><br></p><p>HERE IS WHERE TO START</p><p><br></p><p>1. TAKE THE PLAYING-IT-SAFE QUESTIONNAIRE: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/</a></p><p><br></p><p>2. ONLINE COURSES: <a href=\"https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com/</a></p><p><br></p><p>3. PODCAST: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-podcast/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-podcast/</a></p><p><br></p><p>4. BOOKS: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/books/</a></p><p><br></p><p>5. BLOG: <a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-blog/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-blog/</a></p>","author_name":"Dr. Z. - Patricia Zurita Ona, Psy.D. "}