{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5eaa17597073432b7f5a651b/61e720ffbfb8b00014251502?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"38. How to cope with shame and fear altogether","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5eaa17597073432b7f5a651b/1589580334206-1fccc6839864a04559c0c66e8c494997.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>\"You must be vulnerable to be sensitive to reality. And to me being vulnerable is just another way of saying that one has nothing more to lose. I don’t have anything but darkness to lose. I’m way beyond that.\"</p><p><br></p><p>- Bob Dylan.</p><p><br></p><p>We often play-it-safe by hiding, avoiding, minimizing, and acting as if we're not struggling. But it's human to struggle; it's human to ask for compassion; it's human to be embarrassed; it's human to be vulnerable.</p><p><br></p><p>In the first part of this conversation with Seth Gillihan, Ph.D., he kindly shares:</p><p><br></p><p>- His health struggles</p><p>- How he uses behavioral steps to navigate his day</p><p>- How he uses mindfulness to distinguish what he has control of and what he doesn't</p><p>- How he deals with shameful feelings.</p><p><br></p><p>In the second part of this conversation, Seth shares how he and his daughter collaborated together to write the <a href=\"https://amzn.to/3xfQe1O\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">CBT Deck for Kids and Teens.</a></p><p><br></p><p>I hope you find this conversation helpful and hope it motivates you to be more compassionate with yourself.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>IMPORTANT NEWS: ACT beyond OCD is happening, JANUARY 2022!</strong></p><p><br></p><p>ACT beyond OCD, a live, cohort-based, online class for any person struggling with OCD is opening its doors in January.</p><p><br></p><p>If you want to learn how to tackle pesky obsessions using Acceptance and Commitment Skills and Exposure,, make sure to register in the <a href=\"www.actbeyondocd.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">waitlist</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Please keep in mind that we only run this class twice a year!</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/how-to-cope-with-shame-and-fear/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>(*) Show notes and resources of this episode</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-newsletter/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>(*) Receive free weekly science-based, compassionate, and actionable skills to stop ineffective playing-it-safe</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.thisisdoctorz.com/playing-it-safe-questionnaire/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>(*) Figure out your playing-it-safe profile in 5 minutes and identify the key thinking strategies that keep you living in your head</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://courses.thisisdoctorz.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>(*) Learn ACT skills for anxious achievers by taking Dr. Z. ACT courses</strong></a></p>","author_name":"Dr. Z. - Patricia Zurita Ona, Psy.D. "}