{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5d42020745842932757e7134/6a678a3435a551238a7755ab?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Episode 412: STOP SETTING GOALS: The Choice vs. Goal Mistake Killing Your Progress","description":"<p>Episode Summary</p><p><br></p><p>Think your five-year goal is \"being happy\"? Amber Fuhriman calls it out: happiness, freedom, and success are choices you can make right now, not goals, and confusing the two is the number one reason your goal setting keeps failing.</p><p><br></p><p>Key Topics Covered</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why confusing a choice with a goal is the biggest mistake people make when goal setting</li><li>How to tell the difference between a feeling (happy, successful, free) and a real, tangible goal</li><li>The goal-setting process for turning a vague want into a measurable target with a deadline</li><li>Why setting goals to please a spouse, family, or society instead of yourself guarantees failure</li><li>How to set tangible goals around money, business growth, relationships, and travel that actually require effort and time</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Notable Quotes</p><p><br></p><ul><li>\"Happy is a choice. You can do it right now, you can do it tomorrow, you can do it the next day. Happy is not a goal. Happy is a feeling.\"</li><li>\"If you're not happy now, if you don't feel like you have freedom now, if you don't feel successful now, there's no goal on the planet that's gonna make you feel those things later. So stop confusing a choice with a goal.\"</li><li>\"It's really important, first of all, that when you set a goal, that it is something that you actually want.\"</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Call to Action</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Book a free strategy call with Amber: <a href=\"https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05</a></li><li>Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/</a></li><li>Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0</a></li></ul>","author_name":"Amber Fuhriman"}