{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5d42020745842932757e7134/6a4bbb520f098230b2a3355a?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Episode 409: Stop Attracting Wrong-Fit Clients: The NLP Truth Behind Your Client Pattern","description":"<p>Episode Summary</p><p><br></p><p>You don't attract the wrong clients by accident, you attract them because a boundary was never set. Amber Fuhriman breaks down why you keep saying yes to high-drama, high-resistance clients and how shifting from \"fixer\" to \"coach\" is the real key to building a business full of people who are ready to do the work.</p><p><br></p><p>Keys Topics Covered</p><p><br></p><ul><li>How to spot the wrong-fit client pattern before you say yes (negotiating terms, questioning your expertise, dreading their name in your inbox)</li><li>Why playing the \"fixer\" instead of the \"coach\" unconsciously attracts clients who resist their own transformation</li><li>The \"every victim needs a villain\" concept and how it explains why you become the target for a client's lack of results</li><li>How to use your own body's reactions (dread, over-explaining, discounting your price) as data about what you're willing to accept</li><li>The one honest question to ask about your current client roster to break the cycle for good</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Notable Quotes</p><p><br></p><ul><li>\"You teach people how to treat you by what you choose to allow, and that doesn't just apply to other people. It applies to you as well.\"</li><li>\"A fixer takes responsibility for transformation. A coach creates the conditions for the transformation and the responsibility to be on the client.\"</li><li>\"You don't attract the wrong clients by accident. You attract them because somewhere a standard hasn't been set.\"</li><li>\"Every behavior has an intention. So what was the intention of saying yes when everything inside of you was screaming no?\"</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Call to Action</p><p><br></p><ul><li>Book a free strategy call with Amber: <a href=\"https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05</a></li><li>Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/</a></li><li>Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0</a></li></ul><p><br></p>","author_name":"Amber Fuhriman"}