{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5d42020745842932757e7134/6a42640d6c42755eb68207d5?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Episode 407: The Moment You Knew the Problem Was You: Breaking Patterns in Business and Life","description":"<p><strong>Episode Summary</strong></p><p><br></p><p>The villain in your story keeps changing but the problem stays the same. Amber Fuhriman delivers a no-fluff breakdown of why smart, capable business owners stay stuck in repeating patterns, and exactly how to stop avoiding the one uncomfortable truth that will actually change everything.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Key Topics Covered</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Why the common denominator in every failed client relationship, partnership, and income plateau is you, and why that is the best news you'll hear</li><li>How to identify the specific role you played in your own results without taking blanket blame for everything</li><li>The belief running underneath your patterns: how Amber uncovered that her value was conditional on other people's outcomes and what she did about it</li><li>The difference between a circumstance problem and a \"you problem,\" and why only one of them has a solution you can actually act on</li><li>How to ask the one honest question that breaks a stuck pattern: \"What story am I telling about why this is happening, and what is my role in that story?\"</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Notable Quotes</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>\"When the villain keeps changing but the pattern stays the same, the problem is you. I know that sounds like a slap in the face. It's actually really good news once you get past the part that fucking hurts.\"</li><li>\"If you are the common denominator, if you are the problem, you are also the variable that can change. You are also the solution.\"</li><li>\"When you give the external thing that you're blaming full responsibility for what happened, you also give it the full power over what happens next, and you become a passenger in your own story.\"</li><li>\"I grew faster in the last year after that realization than in the years before it combined.\"</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Call to Action</strong></p><ul><li>Book a free strategy call with Amber: <a href=\"https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://calendly.com/amberfuhriman/connection-call?month=2021-05</a></li><li>Join the Break Your Bullsh*t Box Community: <a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.facebook.com/share/g/185xJ6KALu/</a></li><li>Check out Amber's Speaker Reel: <a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPj5OBvjrr0</a></li></ul><p><br></p>","author_name":"Amber Fuhriman"}