{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5cacee92df9da97b775ebd5e/5caceedfbaf6aefe35f03081?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"[TSE 81] How To Stop the Comparison Game and Choose Yourself","description":"<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">I think Sinead O'Connor said it best in her song `Nothing compares to you'. And it's true. It really doesn't.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">Your aim in life should be to be the very best version of yourself. So why do we all consistently compare ourselves against others?</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">Why do we look at people who are 3, 5 or even 10 years ahead of us in business and in life and get completely dejected that 'we're not there yet' or that we pale in comparison.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">That's like comparing yourself with Richard Branson and his current empire worth billions instead of the Richard Branson in college trying to make a magazine come to life and getting loans from his Mum.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">You will always come up ridiculously short.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">And that's just a game for losers to play, and you're a winner, so I suggest you stop that now.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">You can't even begin to know what's behind their journey, what it took for them to get to where they are now. But you can learn from them, and emulate the great things they do, so long as you don't try to measure up against them.</p>\r\nNothing compares to you. You just focus on being your best self.\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">It doesn't help that we're constantly bombarded with 'overnight success' stories and internet millionaires making money in their sleep.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">I know it can seem like everybody is doing better at everything than you. But they're not.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">In fact often it's far from the truth, they're just good at marketing or spinning out the right stuff.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">I'd like you to stop this destructive habit and instead concentrate on where you're at and what you've achieved.</p>\r\nHere is what you will learn in this podcast:\r\n<ul style=\"color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">\r\n<li>What the comparison hangover is (Marie Forleo's definition) and how to stop it</li>\r\n<li>Why you don't want to fit in but instead stand out</li>\r\n<li>How to stop comparing yourself to others</li>\r\n<li>Example of why the Dutchies rock at being themselves</li>\r\n</ul>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">Click on the play button at the top or <a href=\"https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-suitcase-entrepreneur/id439165878\">download this in iTunes</a> or on <a href=\"http://www.stitcher.com/s?fid=34528&refid=stpr\">Stitcher Radio</a> (and do not forget to leave a review as we might feature yours in the next show!).</p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">Interested in starting a podcast? Pick up my completely free guide on `How to Start a Podcast that Matters’ at <a href=\"http://suitcaseentrepreneur.com/free\" target=\"_blank\">suitcaseentrepreneur.com/free</a> by leaving a short review on my podcast.</p>\r\nShare this on social media in one click\r\n<a href=\"http://ctt.ec/jmT39\" target=\"_blank\">Opportunity is not being momentarily popular w the anonymous masses. It's in being missed when you're gone ~@sethgodin</a>\r\nKey sites mentioned in this podcast:\r\n<ul style=\"color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">\r\n<li>INC magazine article on the <a href=\"http://www.inc.com/magazine/201309/jessica-bruder/psychological-price-of-entrepreneurship.html\" target=\"_blank\">Psychological Price of Entrepreneurship</a></li>\r\n<li>Interview of Marie Forleo by Amy Porterfield on <a href=\"http://www.amyporterfield.com/2014/02/mindset-pitfalls/\" target=\"_blank\">Entrepreneurial Mindset Pitfalls</a></li>\r\n<li><a href=\"http://suitcaseentrepreneur.com/bschoolbonus\" target=\"_blank\">My BSchool Bonus offer.</a></li>\r\n</ul>\r\nLove listening to podcasts? Then try listening to audio books, too.\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\"><a href=\"http://www.audiobooks.com/suitcase\"></a>I know a lot of you listen to my podcast on the move and enjoy the fact that you can listen and learn from anywhere. Well why not do the same with books you haven’t had a chance to pick up or read yet? Listening to audio books is an ideal way to enjoy your favorite books on the move and get to listen to the author read it in the way it’s meant to be read!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">That’s why I’m thrilled to announce my new podcast sponsor <a href=\"http://www.audiobooks.com/suitcase\">Audiobooks </a>who have over 40,000 audio books including best sellers, new releases, and classic favorites for you to choose from. You can simply download audiobooks to your Apple or Android device for offline listening or stream them instantly.</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">What’s more if you sign up at <a href=\"http://www.audiobooks.com/suitcase\">Audiobooks.com/suitcase</a> you’ll get your first book free!</p>\r\n<p style=\"margin-bottom: 1.3em; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;\">Go ahead, and in the comments below tell me one thing about you that makes you unique - don't be shy!</p>","author_name":"Natalie Sisson"}