{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ca4a75d29388cc466cf4481/6050e82785ecc13f68c0ce67?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"So you wanna talk to your childhood bully","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ca4a75d29388cc466cf4481/1616448721368-9d58ba6a496f629a46b12411cb527771.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Were you bullied in middle school?  Were you the bully? This BCR is for you.  We talked with <a href=\"https://www.simoneellin.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Simone Ellin </a>– a journalist who sought out those in her middle school “cool girl clique” who befriended and then bullied her. &nbsp;Now grown -- some would not talk to her but several did – and her recent re-telling of her experiences in <strong><em>Lilith</em></strong> magazine and the <strong><em>Huffington Post</em></strong> went viral; her Facebook creds skyrocketed. And as she writes in <strong><em>Jmore</em></strong> – “Finally I am the popular girl.”</p><p>Also, we spoke with <a href=\"https://warwick.ac.uk/fac/sci/psych/people/dwolke/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dieter Wolke</a>, a psychological researcher at The University of Warwick near Coventry, England, who studies the long-term effects of bullying on the bully and victim. His findings may surprise you.</p><p>Contact BCR hosts -- Rebecca and Alan -- at <a href=\"mailto:barcrawlradio@gmail.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">barcrawlradio@gmail.com</a></p>","author_name":"Alan Winson & Rebecca McKean"}