{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5c90441355a34c90143d61eb/5d2571821f649e3239503523?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"What Do You Mean By ... ?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5c90441355a34c90143d61eb/1586409598227-f8b8bcc3d9f3ac1f4f23fe8ed2225a3d.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>It is well known that divorce is like a death on earth. You go through a grieving process. However, to say \"get over divorce,\" it sounds callous, harsh and cruel.</p><p>This episode explains the title of the podcast. Divorce is a stigma. You get through the pain. In order to get to a better place in life, you must get over all the generalizations of it. You have permission to rip off the scarlet letter 'D' for divorce ... forever!</p><p>Cole candidly talks about the moment he realized divorce wore him like a cloak. Just like being 'under the weather', he was 'under the influence of divorce'. He also mentions the moment he made his way out of that stigma - and into the better life which still lay before him.</p><p>Many thanks to the following resources for aiding in the production of this episode:</p><p><strong><u>OFF THE TOP ... ARTICLES</u></strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://mensdivorce.com/social-stigma/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Divorce’s Problems with Social Stigmas</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-divorcee-stigma-it-st_b_4039529\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Divorcée Stigma That's Alive and Well</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/contemplating-divorce/201010/divorce-without-shame\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Divorce Without Shame</a></li></ul><p><strong><u>SPIRITUAL CONNECTION LITERATURE</u></strong></p><ul><li><a href=\"https://www.christiancentury.org/article/2013-07/spiritual-cul-de-sac\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Spiritual cul-de-sac: How the church fails the divorced</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/dealing-with-guilt-shame-and-social-stigma-of-divorce-1453048.html\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dealing with Guilt, Shame, and Social Stigma of Divorce</a></li><li><a href=\"https://www.convergemagazine.com/rejecting-the-stigma-of-being-a-divorced-christian-woman/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">The Stigma of Being a Divorced Christian Woman</a></li></ul><p><strong><u>EPISODE SCRIPTURE</u></strong> - <a href=\"https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm+73%3A26&amp;version=NIV\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Psalm 73:26</strong></a></p><p>Download your copy of the FREE audio<strong> </strong><a href=\"https://www.getoverdivorce.org\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em>How To Heal From Heartbreak</em></strong></a><em> </em>now!</p><p>All music by -&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/user/ACRProduction9\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Cxdy</strong></a></p>","author_name":"Cole Johnson"}