{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5c8856587c19a24a0e2b4ec1/6ab3d4c262a47b6bec60b9b4?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Truth Is What Rebuilt My Marriage | Garrain Asé on The Blessing Of Separation & Restoring Union","description":"<p>If your relationship is breaking right now and you don&#39;t know how to move through it, this one is for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Garrain Asé came on the show two days after the most significant thing that has happened to him in years.</p><p><br></p><p>A four-month separation. Income cut in half. Businesses going down. A name he changed because it belonged to a slave owner. And underneath all of it, seven years of small lies he told himself, and a sadness he had been carrying since he was four years old and never once touched.</p><p><br></p><p>What you&#39;ll hear:</p><ul><li>Why the rupture was what created access to everything he&#39;d never faced</li><li>The sadness underneath the shame, and how his wife found it before he could</li><li>What seven years of lying to yourself does to your body and your partnership</li><li>Why truth has to come first, because it&#39;s what creates the opening to rebuild</li><li>Naming your parts: Shamason, Footloose, Mr. Fantasy, and why every one has a light side</li><li> Holding on too long and letting go too fast, and how both came from the same childhood</li><li> Why he walked away from the identity everyone had given him</li><li> What his two-year-old son told him that ended the separation</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Garrain is still in his initiation when recording this, and he doesn&#39;t hold back. What you walk away with is a map for what to actually do when everything you&#39;ve built starts coming apart at once. How to find the emotion underneath the one you think you&#39;re feeling. How to tell the truth to your partner when the truth costs something. What to do with the parts of yourself you&#39;ve spent years trying to get rid of. And why the thing falling apart might be the only way through.</p><p><br></p><p>BEGIN YOUR LOVE MAP</p><p><br></p><p>Get started at<a href=\" https://liberate.love/map?garrain-map\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> https://liberate.love/map?garrain-map</a></p><p><br></p><p>If you&#39;re unsure about your relationship. If you don&#39;t know whether you&#39;re supposed to stay or go. If you&#39;re in the middle of something you can&#39;t make sense of.</p><p><br></p><p>The Love Map is for you.</p><p><br></p><p>The Love Map is a 45-minute guided interview you can do from home. Virgil, our AI guide, asks you the questions nobody has asked you about your relationship, and helps you connect the dots between what&#39;s happening now and the patterns that have been running far longer. The one story you adopted as a child that kept growing until it reached every area of your life, including this one.</p><p><br></p><p>&quot;Last night I was confused, asking myself: am I supposed to love this man further, or let him go? The Love Map helped me see that my confusion was coming from fear. I&#39;m not going to leave out of fear. Thank you for creating clarity when I had so much confusion.&quot; -Gilly</p><p><br></p><p>Get started at <a href=\"https://liberate.love/map?garrain-map\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://liberate.love/map?garrain-map</a></p>","author_name":"Liberate.Love"}