{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/5cc9cde7266acfcd51ac5038?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"What's Up With Emotionally Unavailable People?  GUEST: Dr. Marni Feuerman","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/1556729269368-0a05ac1f13bc14f87b1ac49c0e910cda.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>A comment complaint I hear in my practice--especially, of course, from people who have #Hijackal parents, partners, or exes,  is that S/HE IS NOT EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE! </p><p><br></p><p>I belong to many groups on Facebook, and this is a common complaint there, too. </p><p><br></p><p><em>\"I'm attentive, collaborative, loving, nurture, and even compliant, and my partner just doesn't give anything back!\"</em> </p><p><br></p><p>Early on in a relationship that seems to be going somewhere good, you're affected by limerence. Dr. Marni talks about this in today's episode, that warm feeling when you're <strong>falling love</strong>, in lust, or infatuation. She says it's like being on cocaine.  (I'm sure she's guessing about that, right? lol)</p><p><br></p><p>So, if you're ready to hear the truth about how you may have found yourself with an <strong>emotionally unavailable partner,</strong> you'll be fascinated by today's topic. </p><p><br></p><p>Oh, dear! Are you responding by becoming emotionally unavailable yourself? We talk about why you don't want to fall into that trap....and, why it doesn't work, either! </p><p><br></p><p><strong>&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free &amp; low-cost resources to help your relationships!</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>GUEST: </strong>DR. MARNI FEUERMAN</p><p><br></p><p>Marni Feuerman, MSW, PsyD, is a licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker and workshop presenter. As a nationally recognized relationship expert, she is a sought-after media contributor and syndicated freelance writer with content on numerous online media outlets including HuffoPo, Time, Marth Stewart Weddings, MSN and more.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Dr. Marni's debut self-help book is titled, <strong>Ghosted and Breadcrumbed:</strong> Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart about Healthy Relationships (published by New World Library). <strong>She wrote this book for women who struggle with repetitive and unhealthy relationship patterns with men.&nbsp;</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Dr. Marni lives in the South Florida area with her husband and twin daughters. She maintains a private practice where she works extensively with distressed couples and individuals with relationship struggles. In her spare time, she enjoys playing with her rescue dogs, cooking, yoga, and traveling.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>FREE GIFT FROM DR. MARNI:</strong> </p><p>Watch her webinar, Why You Keep Repeating Unhealthy Relationship Patterns\" and get her bonus checklist, \"Is He Emotionally Available,\" when you <a href=\"mailto:SUBSCRIBE@thetalkingsolution.com\" target=\"_blank\">SUBSCRIBE.</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>How to tell if someone is <strong>emotionally available</strong>...although, I'm pretty sure you know, right?</li><li>Is it actually increasing? Are more people <strong>emotionally unavailable</strong> now?</li><li>How we define 'emotional unavailability\". </li><li>The impact of having <strong>emotionally unavailable parents</strong></li><li><strong>Tips for dealing</strong> with an emotionally unavailable partner</li><li>How <strong>limerence affects our judgment in choosing a partner</strong></li><li><strong>and...why some women choose to stay in secret relationships with married men! </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARNI FEUERMAN</strong></p><p>Website::&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.TheTalkingSolution.com\" target=\"_blank\">TheTalkingSolution.com</a></p><p>Podcasts:</p><p>LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.linkedin.com/in/MarniFeuerman\" target=\"_blank\">@MarniFeuerman</a></p><p>Facebook:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/DrMarniFeuerman\" target=\"_blank\">@DrMarniFeuerman</a></p><p>Instagram:&nbsp;</p><p>Twitter:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.twitter.com/DrMarniFeuerman\" target=\"_blank\">@DrMarniFeuerman</a></p><p>YouTube:&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. 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