{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/5b4e7bff82d3c1a31efdea14?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Creating a Safe Place to Love Yourself   GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/1531870120641-b3a378953f67db2c9587a015def1a362.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Creating A Safe Place To Love Yourself...and Doing It </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose, Hakomi Therapist, Self-Love Mentor, and Founder of Young Women Empowerment Circle </strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about what the term, \"<strong>self-love</strong>\" really means. We hear it spoken of so frequently that we may not think about what it actually means. It's not about being vain, arrogant, conceited, or self-centered. It's a very positive thing...when done in the light of what Rhoberta says today!</p><p><br></p><p>\"I remember when I would say anything positive, or good about myself. My mother would say, \"That's conceited. Don't brag.\" I was left to wonder if it was some terrible sin to say I did well on a science test. Am I not supposed to mention anything I do well? I wondered how this all worked. Maybe you were raised with that big question, too. Very confusing!\"</p><p><br></p><p>If this is at all familiar, listen in to recognize and realize that's all changed. <strong>It's healthy to have self-love</strong>, and it's the only thing that can help you find and enjoy <strong>healthy relationships</strong>, too. There is a new way of looking at self-love, and it's important to see it, enjoy it, and live fully expressing as a result.</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose, Hakomi Therapist </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Pernilla shows women who feel unfulfilled inside how to stop compromising themselves and pleasing others. She helps them trust what they already know, so they can <strong>act from wisdom and powe</strong>r and step out of situations where they are not living their own deepest truth.</p><p><br></p><p>She is a <strong>Certified Hakomi Therapist</strong>, Self Love Mentor and Meditation Teacher and founder of Young Women Empowerment Circle. She is the author of numerous books relating to Self Love, Kindness and&nbsp;living in alignment with you who truly are. She also offers online classes about the global impact of True Self Love.</p><p><br></p><p>During this episode, Pernilla talks about the importance of feeling love vs. hearing someone say they love you. That's HUGE!</p><p><br></p><p>From a difficult childhood, Pernilla learned what it takes to actually feel loved, and to allow yourself to be loved, too.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Here's some interview highlights:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>What is the distinction between hearing \"I love you\" and actually <strong>feeling loved</strong></li><li>What does it take to \"feel filled up\" with love</li><li>Why listening to yourself is essential to <strong>loving self-care</strong></li><li>Is it possible you're not <strong>allowing yourself to have your feelings</strong>, and truly feel into them?</li><li>How <strong>anger can be your ally</strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>HER FREE GIFT</strong>:&nbsp;<strong>Pernilla Lillarose's free ebook </strong><a href=\"http://www.divinefeminineflow.com/why-ebook\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Get it HERE</strong>.</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH TRACY MALONE:</strong></p><p>Website:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://narcissistabusesupport.com/\" target=\"_blank\">NarcissistAbuseSupport.com</a></p><p>Twitter:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://twitter.com/TracyAMalone\" target=\"_blank\">@TracyAMalone</a></p><p>LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://linkedin.com/in/TracyAMalone\" target=\"_blank\">Linkedin.com/in/TracyAMalone</a></p><p>Facebook:<a href=\"https://facebook.com/prosperityafterdivorce\" target=\"_blank\">&nbsp;</a><a href=\"https://facebook.com/groups/188681268196044\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook.com/groups/188681268196044</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></p><p>Website:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p>Facebook:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p>Twitter:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://app.pippa.io/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/episodes/Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p>LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p>YouTube: <a href=\"https://YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://www.passiveaggressivechecklist.com\" target=\"_blank\">Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist </a></p><p><a href=\"http://www.relationshipchecklist.com\" target=\"_blank\">Free Relationship Checklist</a></p><p>Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, <a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe\" target=\"_blank\">Tips for Relationships </a></p><p><br></p><p>If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your f<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" target=\"_blank\">irst one-hour session for only $97</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>#relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Rhoberta Shaler, PhD"}