{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/5ac9a3c8ef7a4c2376786ed0?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Stop the Toxic Dance and Recognize Hijackals® with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler","description":"<p><strong>EMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOW</strong></p><p><strong>with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Today's episode is all Dr. Shaler. She created the non-clinical term, <strong>Hijackals</strong>®, to give everyone a way to talk about the patterns, traits, and cycles of people with tendencies towards <strong>personality disorders</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p>It's important to recognize when you're with a Hijackal. If you don't, you will think that everything in the relationship is your fault, because that's what the Hijackal tells you. You'll soon be making yourself into a <strong>people-pleasing</strong> pretzel, trying to be good enough. And, <strong>it's not your fault. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>THIS IS AN IMPORTANT EPISODE. Listen.</p><p><br></p><p>Seg. 1: How to Spot a Hijackal &amp; Stop the Toxic Dance</p><p>Seg. 2: Love-Bombing: It's Not as Desirable As It Sounds</p><p>Seg 3: 12 Signs Your Are in a Love/Hate Relationship That Needs Help</p><p>Seg 4: Recognize Verbal Abuse For What It Is Now</p><p>Seg 5: Q &amp; A: My mother is always finding fault and I can't stand it another minute. \"</p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></p><p>Website:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p>Facebook:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p>Twitter:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://app.pippa.io/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/episodes/Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p>LinkedIn:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p>YouTube: <a href=\"https://youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://www.passiveaggressivechecklist.com/\" target=\"_blank\">Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist </a></p><p><a href=\"http://www.relationshipchecklist.com/\" target=\"_blank\">Free Relationship Checklist</a></p><p>Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, <a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe\" target=\"_blank\">Tips for Relationships </a></p><p><br></p><p>If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your f<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" target=\"_blank\">irst one-hour session for only $97</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>#relationshipadvice #TipsForRelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Rhoberta Shaler, PhD"}