{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/640f8166d75a4a00110a09ab?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Why Narcissists Insist You're NOT GOOD ENOUGH...even though they chose you!","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1678737744192-0651d36cc13725dfbd1d3c0a41c992af.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Hijackals insist you're not good enough...even though they chose you or gave birth to you. What's up with that!@##%%!? It's crazy-making and it's important to understand why this happens. And, why it continues throughout the relationship unless you change. It's not OK.</p><p><br></p><p>This episode will help you clearly see through this crazy-making habit of emotional abuse: making you feel not good enough. It serves the Hijackal but it does not serve you. Understand these things so you can make positive changes right away.</p><p><br></p><p>When someone needs to put you down in order to feel better about themselves, there's trouble. That's what happening with narcissistic Hijackals. They may you feel:</p><p>\"I'm constantly being put down.\"</p><p>\"They make me feel not good enough.\"</p><p>\"I am exhausted and feel worn down.\"</p><p>\"I'm losing my ability to think clearly about myself.\"</p><p>\"Am I really a terrible person?\"</p><p>\"Am I the problem in this relationship?\"</p><p><br></p><p>That's JUST what a Hijackal® wants you to be thinking. Let's change that!!! Listen in.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>Why this quote is significant: \"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.\" - Eleanor Roosevelt </li><li>How making you feel not good enough is key to gaining coercive control</li><li>Why you may need to change your internal dialogue</li><li>Why Hijackals and other narcissists like to amplify and magnify the message that you're not enough</li></ul><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://beaclient.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">I'm here to help</a>. Let's talk soon.</p><p><strong><em>Rhoberta</em></strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Introductory session for new clients only $97</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...</strong></p><p><strong>WEBSITE:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com</a></p><p><strong>PODCAST:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://www.saveyoursanitypodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com</a></p><p><strong>NEWSLETTER</strong>:<a href=\"http://www.hijackalhelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"> http://www.HijackalHelp.com</a></p><p><strong>FACEBOOK:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>INSTAGRAM:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>YOUTUBE</strong>:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p>-------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Emerging Empowered Community now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 2 group Ask Me Anything calls + a monthly Sunday Seminar, AND online Emerging Empowered Journals with prompts each month!</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/circles\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>#notgoodenough #needtoputmedown #givemenocredit #emotionallyimmature #narcissisticfear</p><p>#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals</p><p>#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse</p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}