{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/6202173d2141a80013e6196d?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How to Recognize When Hijackal Drama Turns to Trauma","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1644303803696-5235502b6e65c92d783d3722bc4fcfd2.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>Do you allow yourself to acknowledge that you've been traumatized, or may have been? It's an essential beginning step for understanding why you feel a certain way, or have a particularly negative view of yourself. Emotional abuse can definitely create trauma within you. In this episode, you'll hear very specific information about trauma and how the body takes it in.</p><p><br></p><p>When you are traumatized, you often have diminished ability to describe the feelings you have in words. You need to be able to do that to recover. Freezing and/or collapsing are ways to protect yourself by shutting down. You need to overcome the overwhelm of that. </p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>A definition of trauma and how it feels</li><li>Why you simply stop talking about the trama to suppress it</li><li>How you find yourself outside of the community you need </li><li>Why Hijackals--narcissistic and anti-social folks--need to isolate you</li></ul><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://beaclient.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">I'm here to help</a>.</p><p>Let's talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support</strong>&nbsp;from me? We can talk:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Introductory session for new clients, $97</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...</strong></p><p><strong>WEBSITE:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><strong>PODCAST:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://www.saveyoursanitypodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com</a></p><p><strong>FACEBOOK:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>TWITTER:</strong><a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/episodes/61c150bdda29940012de6caa/%C2%A0https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>&nbsp;</strong></a>https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>LINKEDIN:</strong><a href=\"https://open.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/episodes/61c150bdda29940012de6caa/%C2%A0https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>&nbsp;</strong></a>https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>INSTAGRAM:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>PINTEREST:&nbsp;</strong>https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>CLUBHOUSE: @</strong>drshaler</p><p><br></p><p><strong>YOUTUBE</strong>:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p>-------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Community Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 2 group Ask Me Anything calls each month!</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/circles\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>#recognizingtrauma #emotionalabusetrauma #isolatingme #losingmysenseofself #traumaticmemory</p><p>#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders</p><p>#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse</p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}